A federal shutdown shouldn’t delay your love story. Discover how military couples can access streamlined, legally valid same-day marriage services in California—with expert support tailored for deployments, benefits, and peace of mind.

1. Introduction

When our federal government faces a shutdown, many routine processes slow down. For military couples—active duty, reserves, veterans, and their partners—timing often matters. Whether it’s deployment, relocation, benefits eligibility, or international paperwork, you may not have the luxury of delay. That’s why at Get Married Today we have created a dedicated Military Full Marriage Package with discounted pricing during government shutdowns. This blog post explains how it works, why it matters, and how you can access it—while still fulfilling every legal requirement under California law. We’ll also answer 30 frequently asked questions so you’re fully informed.


2. Why a Government Shutdown Impacts Marriage Logistics for Military Couples

A federal government shutdown occurs when Congress fails to pass necessary appropriation bills or continuing resolutions. During such periods:

  • Certain federal employees are furloughed, and services tied to federal funding may pause. Get Married+1
  • Military families, especially those dealing with deportment, overseas duty, or transfers, may face tight deadlines for benefits, housing, insurance enrollment, spousal access, or dependent registrations.
  • Even though many marriage licensing services operate at the state or county level (and thus are not directly impacted by federal shutdowns), uncertainty and backlog may increase when government offices reduce staffing or public access. Get Married+1
  • Traditional county clerk offices may slow down or restrict services, causing delays in license issuance, certification, filing, or subsequent marriage-certificate requests.

By proactively offering a streamlined, mobile-friendly service with discounted terms for military couples during a shutdown, we ensure your legal marriage isn’t held up by bureaucracy.


3. How Get Married Today Maintains Reliability During Shutdowns

Here’s how our service continues to function so military couples can marry legally and promptly—even when government availability is reduced:

  • Our in-house licensed issuing agent model allows the marriage license to be issued and filed without solely relying on the county clerk’s walk-in counters. Get Married+1
  • Mobile officiants and flexible scheduling ensure that you can have the ceremony at a base, hotel, home, hospital, or other approved location—even late in the day or on tight timelines. Get Married+1
  • We coordinate filing, certification, and can guide you through benefits documentation (for example military base housing, TRICARE enrollment, DEERS, dependent access) so your marriage is fully recognized for these purposes. Get Married
  • The discounted military pricing acknowledges your service and the added urgency of your timeline during a government shutdown—ensuring you’re not left waiting.

Together, this means less risk of delay, more peace of mind, and full legal validity under California law.


4. Who Qualifies for the Military Discount During a Shutdown?

While the specifics may vary by offer period (please check latest terms with us), generally eligible couples include:

  • Active-duty U.S. military members (Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Space Force, Coast Guard)
  • Reservists and National Guard personnel on active status
  • Retired or honorably discharged veterans presenting valid military ID or DD-214 form
  • Military couples facing challenges tied to deployment, PCS (Permanent Change of Station), overseas assignment, base benefits, dependents, or spousal entitlements
  • Fiancés/partners of deployed service members when timing is critical

By verifying military status and need (often via ID, deployment orders, or stationing documentation), we make sure the discount applies where it matters most.


5. What the Military Full Marriage Package Includes (During Shutdown)

Here’s a breakdown of what military couples receive:

  • Same-day California marriage license issuance, without waiting for county clerk queue.
  • Authorized officiant and ceremony—performed at your chosen location (base, hotel, home, hospital) with full legal validity.
  • Immediate proof of marriage documentation so you can start benefit processes, dependent filings, or other time-sensitive tasks.
  • Filing with the county registrar the same day, ensuring your marriage is recorded and legally recognized.
  • Priority certified marriage certificate support—guidance or direct coordination for obtaining certified copies or apostille/verification for international use.
  • Military-specific support: Help with military paperwork, base housing, TRICARE/DEERS, spousal ID, and international deployment logistics.
  • Discounted pricing: Recognizing that shutdowns may affect pay, leave, or credits for service members, we reduce the cost for eligible military couples.

This package is designed to eliminate delay, maintain legal compliance, and adapt to military timelines—even amid federal uncertainties.


6. Why This Matters: Marriage, Military Benefits & Urgent Timelines

For military couples, legal marriage can trigger fundamental rights and responsibilities:

  • Recognition as a spouse for benefits like housing allowance (BAH), family separation allowance, dependent access to base services, and TRICARE/DEERS enrollment.
  • Spousal rights for overseas assignments, immigration of dependents, and spousal travel or relocation benefits.
  • Access to VA benefits, survivor benefits, and pension spousal entitlements for veterans or service members.
  • Timely marriage enables immediate change of status in military housing, dependent command access, medical and dental benefits, and base privileges.
  • When facing deployment, PCS, overseas stationing, or an impending government shutdown delay, timing is critical: otherwise you may miss a benefits-window or incur delays.

Because of this urgency, a service structured for military couples during a shutdown is far more than a convenience—it’s a necessary facilitator of legal rights.


7. Legal Underpinnings — California Marriage Law & Officiants

Licensing & Ceremony Requirements

In California:

  • The license must be obtained from a county clerk/recorder. It is valid for 90 days from issuance. CDPH+1
  • The officiant must be legally authorized — e.g., a minister, priest, rabbi, authorized religious person, judge/retired judge, or Civil Marriage Commissioner. CDPH+1
  • The ceremony must affirm the parties take each other as spouses, and the officiant must complete the license and return it to the county recorder within 10 days. CDPH+1
  • While the federal shutdown may affect federal offices, California’s marriage statutes continue operating at the state/county level. That said, some services may be indirectly affected via staffing or access. Get Married+1

Importance of Private/Confidential Licenses for Military Couples

  • Some military couples prefer confidentiality (for privacy or security reasons). California offers confidential marriage licenses that aren’t part of the public record—helpful when security or deployment is involved.
  • Such confidentiality simplifies logistics: no public posting, fewer witness requirements in certain cases (depending on county).
  • Whether you choose public or confidential, what matters is compliance with licensing, ceremony, and filing requirements to ensure validity for military benefit purposes.

8. How the Process Works for Military Couples During a Shutdown

Here’s a step-by-step workflow tailored for military couples during a government shutdown:

  1. Verification & booking: Confirm eligibility (military ID, stationing orders, deployment schedule) and reserve your appointment with us.
  2. Pre-application documentation: Gather valid government-issued photo IDs for both partners, any prior marriage dissolution proof (if applicable), and your stationing or deployment documentation.
  3. License issuance: On the scheduled date, we issue the California marriage license on-site—avoiding potential county clerk downtime due to the shutdown.
  4. Ceremony location selection: Choose your venue—base chapel, barracks, hotel room, private room, hospital room—where our authorized officiant will perform the ceremony.
  5. Marriage ceremony: The officiant conducts the ceremony. You’ll receive proof of marriage immediately after.
  6. Filing and registration: We submit the completed license to the county recorder within the required timeframe (≤10 days) so your marriage is officially recorded.
  7. Certified copy & benefits support: We guide you through how to obtain certified copies, apostille (if used internationally), and help you with military paperwork—TRICARE, DEERS, housing, dependent access.
  8. Follow-up: We confirm filing, provide documentation you need for benefits, and respond to any additional military-specific form needs (e.g., Powers of Attorney, overseas posting affidavits).

Because this process is structured to bypass shutdown-related delays, you complete your legal marriage without waiting for normal government queues.


9. Common Mistakes Military Couples Should Avoid

  • Waiting until regular county hours only: During a shutdown, standard county clerk services may slow or close—waiting increases risk of delay.
  • Assuming residency matters: California does not require one partner be a California resident. Military couples often live out-of-state or overseas but can still marry legally in California. Get Married+1
  • Using expired or invalid ID: Valid government-issued photo ID is non-negotiable.
  • Neglecting prior marriage dissolution info: If either partner was previously married or in a registered domestic partnership, you must provide proof of dissolution, death, or nullity.
  • Assuming the ceremony can be delayed past license validity: You must complete the ceremony within the validity window of the license (typically 90 days).
  • Thinking your spouse benefits are automatically triggered: While marriage is lawfully recognized once ceremony and filing are complete, you still must initiate benefit enrollments (TRICARE, DEERS, housing).
  • Relying on federal offices when they may be closed: For military couples needing documents for overseas postings or dependents, some federal services may be closed or delayed—plan accordingly.
  • Not verifying officiant authorization: Your officiant must meet California’s legal requirements to ensure the marriage is valid—check rather than assume.

10. Frequently Asked Questions (30 FAQs)

  1. Can my military spouse and I still get married during a federal government shutdown?
    Yes — our service is designed exactly for this scenario, and we operate independently of county-clerk office wait times. Get Married+1
  2. What constitutes “military couple” eligibility for the discount?
    Active-duty service members, reservists, National Guard on active orders, veterans (honorable discharge) with valid ID, and their partners.
  3. Does one partner have to be in the military?
    No — as long as one partner qualifies under the military criteria and you meet the documentation, you’re eligible for the discounted package.
  4. Is the marriage legally valid for military benefits (housing, TRICARE, DEERS)?
    Yes — once the license is issued, ceremony completed, and filed properly, your marriage is recognized for those purposes.
  5. What types of ID are acceptable for the application?
    Valid government-issued photo ID (driver’s license, passport, military ID) with photo, date of birth, issue/expiration.
  6. What if one partner is stationed overseas or about to deploy?
    We support expedited scheduling, mobile officiant service, and documentation tailored for deployment timelines.
  7. How soon do we need to complete the ceremony after we obtain the license?
    Most California licenses are valid for up to 90 days from issuance, but you should confirm with your specific county or our service.
  8. Do we need witnesses?
    For a public license yes (at least one). For confidential licenses (available in many California counties) no witnesses are typically required.
  9. Is the discount only during the shutdown period?
    Yes — the purpose is to assist military couples during the challenging period of a federal shutdown; when normal operations resume, standard pricing applies.
  10. Will the county still accept the license if the county clerk’s office is closed?
    Yes — we file the license directly with the county recorder through our authorized process, even if public walk-in windows are closed.
  11. Can we choose our own location for the ceremony (base, hotel, home)?
    Yes — we provide mobile officiant services and can meet you at your selected venue, including base or private location.
  12. Can we add guests or have a large ceremony?
    The discounted military package is designed for couples to keep things streamlined (often for two only). If you wish a larger guest list, ask for the extended option.
  13. Do we need a separate notarization or apostille for overseas use?
    If you are using your marriage certificate for international or foreign-military benefits, we coordinate trusted partners who can handle notarization or apostille services. Get Married
  14. How long does the process take on the day?
    Typically under an hour: license issuance, ceremony, documentation. Military scheduling may compress it further.
  15. What if I was previously married or in a domestic partnership?
    You’ll need to provide the date the prior relationship ended (divorce, annulment or death). Delays or additional proof may be required.
  16. Do I have to be a resident of California to get married here?
    No — California allows non-residents to marry within the state. Get Married
  17. What if the county where I applied suspends service during the shutdown?
    Our private service arrangement mitigates that risk—we issue the license and complete filing independent of county counters.
  18. How do we get certified copies of the marriage certificate later?
    After the filing, you may request certified copies from the county recorder. We will guide you and can assist for military purposes.
  19. Is the ceremony valid even if the county office is closed?
    Yes — as long as licensing, officiant, ceremony, and filing are properly completed.
  20. Can the officiant be a friend or family member?
    Only if they meet California’s legal requirements (minister, priest, rabbi, authorized person, judge). CDPH
  21. Does the discount mean less legal validity?
    Absolutely not — the legal requirements remain identical. The discount is purely financial.
  22. What about name change for military spouse benefits?
    Once married and certified, you can pursue name change and benefit changes; we can help you understand the steps.
  23. Can we have photos or video during the ceremony?
    Yes — our mobile and in-office ceremonies allow recording and photography, subject to venue rules.
  24. What if one partner can’t travel to California?
    California law does not broadly allow proxy marriages except under specific military deployment conditions. Military.com If applicable, discuss with our team.
  25. Is a confidential license advisable for military couples?
    Often yes — it offers privacy and is suitable for couples whose stationing or security status may favor confidentiality.
  26. Will this marriage be valid if we move to another state or country?
    Yes — a legally valid California marriage is recognized in other U.S. states and can be registered internationally if you follow proper apostille/credential steps.
  27. What if the government shutdown ends while we are mid-process?
    You remain eligible for the service once booked under the shutdown-discount terms as long as you meet the criteria at booking.
  28. Can we still hold the ceremony on a military base?
    Yes, provided you comply with base access rules, ceremony requirements, and our mobile service coordinates the location.
  29. What happens after the ceremony in terms of filing?
    We handle filing with the county registrar and provide proof of marriage; you may need to follow up for certified copies or benefit updates.
  30. How do we get started?
    Contact our team, verify eligibility, schedule your appointment, gather ID and any prior marriage documents, choose your ceremony location—then you’re ready to go.

11. Why Military Discounts During Shutdown Make Sense

  • Acknowledgment of service: We believe service members and veterans deserve recognition and support—especially when federal bureaucracy slows down.
  • Timing sensitivity: Deployment, PCS moves, overseas stationing, and dependent paperwork often can’t wait for regular government re-opening.
  • Operational readiness: By removing delay, we help you focus on your marriage and core commitments—not on waiting in lines or managing administrative backlog.
  • One-stop legal workflow: Offering licensing, ceremony, filing, certified copies, apostille/notarization and benefits support under one roof—reduces error and stress.
  • Peace of mind for spouses: Once you are legally married, you are eligible for housing, dependents, insurance, and access—critical for military families.

12. The Unique Value Proposition: Why Choose Us?

  • Same-day issuance and ceremony: No waiting for county clerk availability.
  • Mobile or remote capable: We travel to you—base, hotel, home, hospital, wherever you are.
  • Military-tailored support: We understand the language, timing, and benefits context of service couples.
  • Shutdown-proof process: Even if federal offices are closed, we ensure your marriage goes forward.
  • Discounted pricing: During shutdowns, we do not pass delays or bureaucracy onto you—we lighten the financial burden.

13. Planning Tips for Military Couples Using This Service

  • Book early: Especially if you’re upcoming for deployment, PCS, leave or overseas orders. Availability may be limited.
  • Gather documents ahead: Valid photo IDs, any prior marriage dissolution proof, deployment/assignment orders if applicable.
  • Choose your ceremony location early: Consider base access rules, travel schedules, time zones, and your partner’s availability.
  • Decide public vs confidential license: Confidential may offer more privacy; public is more traditional—and both are valid for benefits.
  • Follow up for certified copies: After filing, know how to request your certified certificate, especially if spouse benefits or overseas use is involved.
  • Handle name change and benefit updates promptly: Military housing, TRICARE, DEERS, dependent access—they often have enrollment windows you don’t want to miss.
  • Coordinate with our team for apostille or notary needs: If your marriage certificate will be used internationally (for spouse immigration, overseas stationing), plan ahead.
  • Keep a backup plan: If your ceremony location or date must change due to duty, communicate early—our mobile flexibility is designed for that.
  • Communicate with your chain of command if required: Some deployments or units may have specific rules around marriage documentation for dependents or housing; give them notice.
  • Celebrate your journey: This service takes the legal work off your plate so you can focus on the promise you’re making to each other.

14. Legal Validity and Long-Term Considerations

  • A California marriage that meets all requirements is valid nationwide and recognized for federal purposes (including military benefits) once filing is recorded.
  • For international use or overseas benefits, you may need your certified certificate and possibly an apostille to validate it abroad.
  • Even in a shutdown environment, you retain all spouse rights—housing, medical, insurance, survivor benefits—once the registration is final.
  • Choose your name change early if you plan to switch surname—update your military and civilian records promptly.
  • If you later move to another state, your California marriage remains valid; you may need to register it or modify beneficiary elections, but the marriage remains legally binding.

15. Final Thoughts

If you’re a military couple facing deployment, relocation, or unforeseen delays due to a government shutdown, don’t let paperwork or timing stall your marriage. With our Military Full Marriage Package, discounted for service members during a shutdown, you can make your union official—quickly, legally, and with full support for military benefits. We honor your service, we respect your timeline, and we ensure your marriage is fully recognized. Your commitment deserves no delay.

Thank you for your service. Let’s make this day count.