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California Marriage Requirements with Get Married Today

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This page explains the practical requirements to complete a confidential California marriage license and ceremony workflow with Get Married Today, including accepted IDs, the “living together” rule, and prior-marriage proof rules.

We focus on confidential California marriage licenses (privacy-friendly; legally recognized).
You must be living together or planning to live together as a married couple.
Prior marriages: if ended within 2 years, bring physical proof; if ended more than 2 years ago, provide accurate date/details.
Bring accurate spelling for names/parents’ names to avoid delays with future certified-copy use.

Related pages: Confidential Marriage LicenseHow It WorksFAQ

Complete Checklist

Core Requirements

These requirements are written for couples who want a smooth, same-day appointment without paperwork surprises.

What you must have on appointment day

1) Valid ID for Both Partners

Bring a valid government-issued photo ID for each partner. Commonly accepted forms include:

  • Driver’s license (any U.S. state)
  • State-issued ID card
  • Passport (U.S. or foreign)
  • Military ID
  • Permanent Resident Card
  • Consular ID (varies by scenario)

Best practice: bring the original (not a photo of the ID) so details can be recorded accurately.

2) Prior Marriage Details + Proof (2-Year Rule)

If either partner has been married before (or had a registered partnership), you must provide how and when it ended.

  • Ended more than 2 years ago: typically no physical proof needed, but you must provide the exact end date and type (divorce, death, annulment, dissolution).
  • Ended within the last 2 years: bring physical proof (final decree/judgment, death certificate, annulment order, dissolution paperwork).

Helpful general reference: California Courts Self-Help.

3) Parents’ Names + Core Personal Details

Have accurate spelling for names and parents’ names. This helps avoid future issues when requesting certified copies or using the record for immigration, benefits, or name changes.

  • Full legal names
  • Parents’ full names (as requested)
  • Place of birth (state/country)
  • Current address (where you live or will live together)

4) Living Together Requirement (Confidential License)

Confidential marriage licenses require that the couple is living together as spouses or realistically plans to live together as a married couple.

  • You are currently cohabiting or will cohabit after marriage.
  • You are entering marriage voluntarily and truthfully.

Confidential records are privacy-friendly, but the marriage itself is fully legal and widely recognized.

5) Legal Capacity & Consent

  • Both partners are generally at least 18 years old.
  • Both must be coherent enough to understand and consent.
  • Neither partner can be currently married to someone else.

General state reference: CDPH Vital Records.

6) Choose the Right Service Type

Pick the service that matches what you need today:

End-to-End Workflow

How the Same-Day Process Works

This is the practical sequence most couples follow, designed to reduce confusion and prevent paperwork mistakes.

  1. 1
    ID Verification + Info Review

    We confirm identity, collect required details (including prior marriage info), and verify eligibility for a confidential license.

  2. 2
    License Prepared + Signed

    You review and sign the license. Confidential licenses generally do not require witnesses.

  3. 3
    Legal Ceremony

    A short civil or non-denominational ceremony is performed (office or mobile), with optional personal touches.

  4. 4
    Officiant Signature

    The officiant completes the required signing steps that finalize the marriage solemnization.

  5. 5
    Proof of Marriage Guidance

    If you need immediate proof for benefits/housing, see Proof of Marriage.

  6. 6
    County Filing Workflow

    Your record follows the county filing workflow, which is required for official recording and certified copy requests.

  7. 7
    Certified Copies + International Use

    Certified copies come from the county. For international use, plan apostille after certified copies are issued.

Why Couples Prefer This Requirements + Workflow Model

It’s built for speed, privacy, and compliance—especially when county clerk calendars are full or offices are closed on holidays.

24/7 availability (many evenings/weekends)
Confidential license option
Great for deadlines (benefits/deployment)
Mobile service options
International use planning
Clear certified-copy guidance

International couples often pair marriage services with apostille support: Orange County Apostille.

FAQ

Marriage Requirements FAQs (20)

These questions focus on eligibility, documents, and what typically causes delays.

1) Do we have to go to the county clerk or courthouse?

In this workflow, most couples do not need a separate courthouse or county clerk visit for licensing + ceremony. The goal is one appointment with the required steps completed in the correct order.

2) What IDs are accepted for a confidential marriage license?

Most couples use a driver’s license, state ID, passport, military ID, or permanent resident card. The key is a valid government-issued photo ID that clearly identifies the person signing the license.

3) Can international couples marry in California without U.S. residency?

Yes, many non-U.S. citizens marry in California. You still must meet ID and eligibility requirements, and you may later request certified copies and apostille if the certificate will be used abroad.

4) Do confidential marriage licenses require witnesses?

Generally, no. Confidential licenses usually do not require witnesses, which is one reason they’re popular for private and same-day marriages.

5) What is the “living together” requirement?

Confidential licenses require that the couple is living together as spouses or realistically plans to live together as a married couple. This requirement is tied to the license type itself.

6) What if we are long-distance right now?

Long-distance couples often qualify if they are genuinely planning to live together as spouses after marriage. Be ready to provide your current address and your plan to cohabit.

7) What is the prior-marriage “2-year rule”?

If a prior marriage ended within the last 2 years, you generally need physical proof (final decree/judgment, death certificate, annulment order). If it ended more than 2 years ago, you typically provide accurate dates/details without bringing proof.

8) What counts as “physical proof” for a prior marriage?

Common examples include a final divorce judgment/decree, a death certificate, or an annulment order. It must be the official document that shows the legal end of the prior marriage.

9) What if we don’t know the exact divorce date?

Try to obtain the exact date before your appointment because accuracy prevents delays. If you ended the marriage within the last 2 years, bring the decree so the date can be verified.

10) What if my name is spelled differently across documents?

Resolve name discrepancies before the appointment when possible. Even small spelling differences can cause problems later when requesting certified copies or using the certificate for benefits or immigration.

11) Do both partners need to be present?

For a same-day license + ceremony workflow, both partners are typically present to verify identity, sign, and consent. This is also important for the legal ceremony itself.

12) What does “coherent enough to consent” mean?

Both partners must understand what they’re doing, answer basic questions, and consent freely. If a partner cannot demonstrate informed consent, the marriage cannot proceed legally.

13) Are there age requirements?

Most marriages are for adults (18+). If you have a unique legal situation involving age or guardianship, you should review official state guidance and consult your own legal counsel.

14) Do we need parents’ names?

Yes, parent name information is commonly collected for license paperwork. Bring correct spelling to avoid errors that could cause delays later.

15) What if one parent’s name is unknown?

Provide the most accurate information you have. Requirements can vary by scenario; the priority is accuracy and consistency with existing records when possible.

16) Can we get married on holidays or after-hours?

Many couples choose same-day services specifically because government offices are closed or booked. The requirements remain the same regardless of date: valid IDs, eligibility, and accurate prior-marriage information.

17) How do we get certified copies after we’re married?

Certified copies are issued through the county’s certified-copy process after the record is filed. Plan ahead if you need copies for immigration, benefits, or international use.

18) Is a confidential marriage record publicly searchable?

Confidential records are generally not searchable like public records. Access to certified copies is usually limited to the parties and authorized channels, which supports privacy.

19) Can the marriage certificate be used internationally?

Yes, but many countries require a certified copy and may require apostille/legalization. Apostille is typically done after certified copies are issued.

20) What’s the best way to avoid delays?

Bring valid IDs, confirm spelling for names/parents’ names, know prior marriage end dates, and bring proof if your prior marriage ended within the last 2 years. Accuracy is the fastest path.

Marriage Requirements