Get Married Today – Same-Day Marriage & Elopement FAQs

Get Married Today – Frequently Asked Questions

#1. Can we really get legally married on the same day in California?
Yes. Get Married Today is authorized to issue California marriage licenses and perform the ceremony on the same day, which means you never need to visit the courthouse. Couples simply bring valid identification and complete a short questionnaire during their appointment. The license is issued instantly and the ceremony can occur immediately afterward. This process is fully legal under California Family Code § 401. We file your paperwork with the county clerk so your marriage becomes official within days.
#2. What is an elopement and how does Get Married Today make it special?
An elopement is an intimate, often spontaneous wedding focused on the couple rather than a large event. At Get Married Today we streamline every step—license, officiant, and ceremony—in one appointment. You can elope privately at our chapel, a beach, park, or hotel suite, with or without guests. Because we handle all legal details, you enjoy the moment without worrying about paperwork. Our officiants personalize vows while keeping the ceremony legally compliant.
#3. What identification do we need for a same-day marriage license?
Each person must show a valid, unexpired government-issued photo ID such as a driver’s license, state ID, passport, or military ID. The names on both IDs should match the names you will place on the marriage license. If your legal name recently changed, bring certified documentation proving that change. Photocopies or digital images cannot be accepted under California law. Having proper identification allows us to issue your license immediately without delays.
#4. Do we need a witness for our elopement ceremony?
If you choose a public marriage license, at least one witness must be present to sign the license after the ceremony. A confidential license, however, requires no witness at all, making it ideal for private elopements. Many couples select the confidential option when they prefer to keep the record sealed and enjoy an intimate ceremony with only the officiant. Either way, the marriage is equally valid in all jurisdictions. If you need a witness, we can often provide one upon request.
#5. What is the difference between a public and confidential marriage license?
A public license becomes part of the public record and can be requested by anyone, while a confidential license is restricted to the couple themselves. The confidential license also eliminates the need for a witness and offers extra privacy for elopements. Both are legally identical in validity and recognized worldwide once filed. Our team will help you decide which type suits your circumstances. Many couples prefer the confidential version for convenience and discretion.
#6. Where can we elope in Southern California?
You may elope virtually anywhere that is meaningful to you—beaches, parks, private homes, hotel rooftops, or scenic overlooks. Get Married Today regularly performs ceremonies from Santa Barbara to San Diego, including Malibu, Santa Monica, Palos Verdes, Huntington Beach, Newport Beach, Laguna Beach, Dana Point, Oceanside, and Coronado. We can suggest romantic and easily accessible spots for every budget. Some public spaces may require a simple permit, which we help you obtain. Our officiants travel to you, making elopement effortless.
#7. How long is the marriage license valid?
Once issued, a California marriage license is valid for ninety (90) days. Your ceremony must occur within that window or you’ll need to obtain a new license. We encourage couples to plan the ceremony soon after issuance so filing occurs promptly. Because we file directly with the county, your marriage record becomes official quickly. This ensures no lapse or delay in obtaining certified copies later for name changes or immigration paperwork.
#8. Do you offer same-day ceremonies on weekends or holidays?
Yes. Get Married Today operates seven days a week and frequently performs ceremonies on holidays such as Valentine’s Day, July 4th, Halloween, and New Year’s Eve. Weekend elopements are extremely popular for out-of-town couples who want to combine travel and marriage in one trip. Our mobile officiants can meet you morning, afternoon, or evening to match your schedule. Even during peak dates we keep a few time slots reserved for urgent same-day requests.
#9. Can non-U.S. citizens get married through Get Married Today?
Absolutely. California does not require U.S. citizenship or residency to marry, so international visitors can legally wed while traveling. Bring valid passports or government IDs from your home country, and if necessary, we’ll guide you through certified translation of your documents. Afterward, you may request an apostille for use overseas. We routinely help couples from dozens of nations marry lawfully and celebrate in California’s most iconic locations.
#10. How private is an elopement with Get Married Today?
Confidential licenses make your marriage record private, meaning only you and your spouse can request copies. Our ceremonies can be completely secluded, involving only the officiant and the two of you. Many couples choose sunrise or weekday times for extra privacy at beaches or gardens. We respect your discretion and never share photos or details without consent. Every aspect of your experience can remain entirely confidential from start to finish.
#11. Can you marry us at our hotel or home?
Yes. Our mobile officiants frequently perform same-day weddings at hotels, Airbnbs, private homes, and backyards throughout Southern California. All we need is a quiet, safe space large enough for the couple, officiant, and any desired witnesses. The legal portion takes only a few minutes, and we handle the filing afterward. This option offers the comfort of privacy while avoiding travel or crowds. Many couples transform their suite or garden into a romantic mini-venue.
#12. How long does the whole process take from start to finish?
Most same-day marriages are completed within thirty to forty-five minutes. That timeframe includes issuing the license, performing the ceremony, signing the documents, and answering your post-wedding questions. We schedule efficiently so couples never wait in long lines like at the courthouse. Once completed, we deliver or mail the license for official filing. Within a few weeks the county clerk records it and certified copies become available upon request.
#13. What happens after the ceremony?
Immediately after your vows, the officiant and any required witness sign your license. We then file it with the appropriate county clerk’s office within a few business days. Once the record is indexed, you can order certified copies for legal name changes, insurance, or immigration purposes. We’ll send you instructions and forms for that step. Our follow-through ensures your marriage becomes part of California’s permanent public record without delays.
#14. Can we choose our own vows?
Yes. While we include the legally required wording for California marriages, you are free to add personalized vows or readings. Many eloping couples write short promises reflecting their story or values. Our officiants coordinate with you beforehand to integrate your text smoothly. Whether humorous, traditional, or romantic, your vows become the heart of the ceremony. We keep timing flexible so your words receive full attention.
#15. What if we were married before?
If either partner was previously married, the divorce, annulment, or dissolution must be final before we can issue a new license. You’ll need to provide the exact date that the prior marriage ended and possibly show a certified decree if it was finalized recently. California law prohibits overlapping marriages, so accuracy matters. We’ll review your documents confidentially to ensure compliance. Once verified, your new license can be issued immediately.
#16. Are there residency requirements to marry in California?
No. You do not need to be a California resident or U.S. citizen to marry here. Visitors from other states or countries may legally wed as long as they present valid identification. This flexibility makes California one of the easiest places in the world to elope. Many couples travel specifically for the convenience of same-day licensing. Your marriage is recognized nationwide and internationally once properly certified or apostilled if required abroad.
#17. Do we need to make an appointment?
Appointments guarantee that an authorized officiant is available at your chosen time and place. We often accept walk-ins when the schedule allows, but elopement days fill quickly, especially weekends. Booking ahead also lets us prepare your paperwork and confirm location details. You can reserve by phone, text, or online booking form. Once confirmed, your time slot is exclusively yours for issuing the license and performing the ceremony.
#18. What payment methods do you accept?
We accept major credit cards, debit cards, and cash for both licensing and ceremony fees. A small deposit may be required to hold your preferred date and time. Payments are processed securely, and receipts are provided immediately for your records. We are transparent about all costs with no hidden surcharges. For mobile or beach ceremonies, travel fees are clearly listed at booking so you know exactly what to expect.
#19. How much does a same-day marriage service cost?
Pricing depends on the license type and ceremony location, but same-day packages typically range from one to a few hundred dollars. That includes issuance of the marriage license, officiant services, and county filing. Optional add-ons such as photography, extra witnesses, or travel outside Orange County are available. We post our current fees online for full transparency. Couples appreciate that our pricing is clear and significantly faster than government offices.
#20. Can you marry us outdoors at the beach?
Yes, beach elopements are one of our most requested experiences. We handle ceremonies from Santa Barbara to San Diego, choosing scenic yet accessible spots like Malibu, Laguna, Newport, and Coronado. Some beaches require simple permits for gatherings, which we help you obtain. We recommend sunrise or sunset for the best light and smallest crowds. Our officiants bring all necessary materials so your beach wedding is smooth and stress-free.
#21. How quickly do you file our marriage license after the ceremony?
We typically file your completed license with the appropriate county clerk within one to three business days. Fast filing ensures your marriage is recorded quickly, allowing you to request certified copies sooner. Once the record is received, the county processes and indexes it within a few weeks. We handle all paperwork, so there’s nothing you need to deliver in person. This prompt follow-through is one reason couples choose Get Married Today for convenience and reliability.
#22. Are you open on holidays and weekends?
Yes, our team performs ceremonies every day of the year, including weekends and major holidays. We know that many couples only have specific days off or want symbolic dates like New Year’s Eve or Valentine’s Day. Our flexible scheduling allows you to celebrate without waiting for government offices to reopen. Holiday elopements book quickly, so early reservations are encouraged. We’re proud to be available whenever love can’t wait.
#23. Can you meet us at any location we choose?
Yes. We are a fully mobile service that travels across Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, and San Diego Counties. Whether you prefer a beach, park, hotel suite, or private backyard, we bring the license and officiant directly to you. Mobile ceremonies save time and eliminate courthouse travel. We’ll coordinate permits and parking details so your event remains smooth and stress-free. Essentially, your chosen location becomes your personal wedding venue.
#24. What if one of us was divorced recently?
If your divorce was finalized within the last 90 days, please bring a certified copy of the final judgment or dissolution decree. This document confirms that the previous marriage has ended legally. California law requires the date and type of termination to appear on your new license. Once verified, we can issue your license immediately. Providing complete information ensures your new marriage record is valid without any later corrections needed.
#25. Do we need blood tests to get married in California?
No. California abolished blood-test requirements decades ago, making the process much simpler. There’s also no waiting period after obtaining the license. This is why same-day marriages are entirely legal here. Once IDs are verified, you can marry within minutes. The lack of extra medical or bureaucratic steps is what makes Get Married Today so fast and accessible for all couples.
#26. How long are appointments usually?
A typical same-day marriage appointment lasts about thirty minutes from check-in to completion. That includes verifying IDs, issuing the license, performing the ceremony, and signing the paperwork. Larger or customized ceremonies may take slightly longer. We never rush couples but maintain efficiency to keep everything relaxed and on schedule. You’ll leave the appointment legally married and smiling.
#27. What happens if we need to postpone?
We understand that plans can change unexpectedly. Simply contact us as soon as possible to reschedule. We’ll transfer your deposit to the new date at no extra cost if notified within our stated time frame. Our flexible team will find the next available slot that fits your schedule. Communication ensures that even last-minute adjustments remain smooth.
#28. Can you provide flowers or decorations?
While we don’t maintain an in-house florist, we work with several trusted local vendors. We can arrange small bouquets, boutonnieres, or minimal décor suitable for elopements. Many couples prefer simple touches that travel easily between beach and hotel. If you’d like full event styling, we’ll connect you with planners experienced in micro-weddings. Our priority is ensuring your ceremony looks lovely without added stress.
#29. Will our California marriage be recognized in other states?
Yes. Marriages legally performed in California are recognized across the United States and by most foreign jurisdictions. Once filed with the county, your marriage certificate serves as universal legal proof. If you move, no additional registration is required. For international recognition, you may later obtain an apostille. Couples can marry confidently knowing their union is valid everywhere.
#30. Do you perform ceremonies for same-sex couples?
Absolutely. California law grants all couples equal marriage rights, and Get Married Today celebrates diversity wholeheartedly. We use inclusive language in our ceremonies and respect each couple’s preferences. Every marriage license and filing carries the same legal standing regardless of gender. We’re honored to unite all loving partners who come through our doors. Equality is at the heart of what we do.
#31. Do minors ever qualify to marry?
Minors under 18 can marry only with both parental consent and a court order authorizing the license. We recommend consulting the family court before contacting us, as the process requires judicial review. Once approved, we can complete the legal ceremony. Because additional paperwork is involved, advance scheduling is necessary. For adults 18 and over, no parental consent is required at all.
#32. Can you notarize related marriage documents?
Yes. Through our notary network, we can notarize affidavits or forms connected to your marriage record, such as certified copy requests. Having both services together saves you an extra trip. Everything is handled in compliance with California notarial law. We provide seals and acknowledgments instantly. This one-stop convenience is part of our full-service model.
#33. How private is the confidential marriage record?
Confidential records are not open to public inspection or online searches. Only the spouses themselves can request certified copies, and they must do so with notarized identification. This format is ideal for couples desiring discretion or working in public professions. Despite the privacy, it remains 100 % legal and recognized. We handle the same filing steps while maintaining strict confidentiality.
#34. Can we change our license type after it’s printed?
Once a license has been issued and signed, it cannot be converted from public to confidential or vice versa. If you realize you prefer the other type, we can void and re-issue before the ceremony. Our staff will confirm your choice carefully during issuance to prevent errors. This quick clarification ensures your privacy and record preferences are correct from the start. We make sure you understand all differences beforehand.
#35. Are there residency requirements?
No residency is required for a California marriage license. Couples from out of state or abroad may marry here freely. Simply present proper identification and meet the eligibility requirements. This openness attracts destination elopements from around the world. California welcomes everyone ready to say “I do.”
#36. Are foreign passports acceptable identification?
Yes. Valid passports from other countries are accepted forms of ID under California law. If your passport is written in non-Roman characters, bring a transliteration or secondary ID with English text. We can advise on translation if needed. As long as your photo and birth date are clear, issuance proceeds normally. International visitors marry with us every week without issue.
#37. Do you perform courthouse-style ceremonies?
Yes, we offer simple civil ceremonies replicating courthouse wording but in a friendlier setting. These quick elopements focus purely on the legal exchange of vows. Couples appreciate the efficiency and calm environment away from long lines. The officiant still adds warmth while maintaining the official language required. It’s essentially the courthouse experience brought to you.
#38. May we invite a few guests?
Certainly. Most elopements include between two and ten guests. Please let us know your expected count so we can plan space accordingly. If the venue requires a permit for gatherings, we’ll guide you through that process. Small groups keep the focus on your vows while ensuring logistics stay simple. Our officiants handle intimate crowds beautifully.
#39. What if we need interpretation in another language?
We can provide bilingual officiants in Spanish and coordinate interpreters for other languages with advance notice. The law requires that both parties fully understand the ceremony to give consent. Our translation partners ensure legal accuracy and cultural sensitivity. Let us know your preference during booking so we can arrange the right professional. We love helping multicultural couples feel comfortable and represented.
#40. Can we marry on short notice tonight?
Often yes. If we have an available officiant and you possess valid IDs, we can meet within hours. Evening ceremonies under sunset or city lights are very popular. We recommend calling ahead to confirm immediate availability. Our team specializes in fast, romantic, and fully legal same-day weddings. Few services in California can move as quickly as we do.
#41. What if our names differ on various documents?
Provide legal proof of any name change, such as a court order, marriage dissolution, or citizenship certificate. We must issue the license under your current legal name exactly as shown on valid ID. Having mismatched records may delay filing later. Our coordinators review everything in advance to prevent errors. Once names match properly, the license printing is instantaneous.
#42. Can we marry remotely by video?
California law requires both parties to be physically present together for the license and ceremony. Virtual or proxy marriages are not recognized by the state. However, we can perform small private ceremonies in person almost anywhere for convenience. Couples living apart temporarily may schedule a quick reunion just to complete the legal step. Once performed, your marriage remains valid even if you separate geographically again.
#43. How do we order certified copies after a confidential marriage?
For confidential marriages, only the couple can request certified copies directly from the county where it was filed. We’ll provide the correct request form and notarization instructions. The county then mails the certified copy to your chosen address. This protects your privacy while still giving you full access to legal proof. We stay available for guidance at any point after filing.
#44. Can we plan a themed or holiday elopement?
Absolutely. We love creative ceremonies—Halloween costumes, beach chic, winter-white outfits, or festive holiday colors. As long as legal vows are included, your theme is entirely up to you. Our officiants adapt tone and attire appropriately. Themed weddings make for unforgettable memories and photos. Just inform us early so we coordinate any permits or timing around public events.
#45. Do you provide translations or apostilles for marriage certificates?
Yes, through our affiliated translation and apostille partners. After your marriage is recorded, we can translate the certificate for foreign governments or prepare authentication for international recognition. Couples planning immigration or dual-citizenship filings find this seamless. We handle notarization and submission on your behalf. Everything stays within one trusted network connected to Get Married Today.
#46. Can we have the legal ceremony now and a big wedding later?
Yes, many couples choose this route. The small legal ceremony ensures your marriage is valid immediately, while the larger celebration can occur anytime later. You won’t need another license; the later event can be symbolic. This approach is popular with destination weddings or couples waiting for family availability. We make the legal step quick, private, and beautifully simple.
#47. Are decorations allowed at beaches or parks?
Rules vary by city, but most public beaches limit setups to small arches, handheld bouquets, or battery-powered décor. We always check local guidelines to avoid fines or permit issues. Lightweight and minimal decorations keep your elopement easy and elegant. For larger setups, private venues may be better. We’ll help you choose what fits your aesthetic and the law.
#48. Can we use a drone for photos or video?
Drone usage depends on city and park regulations. Some coastal areas restrict flights for safety and privacy. If permitted, the operator must be licensed and follow FAA rules. We’ll advise what’s allowed at your chosen site. Our photographers can often capture sweeping views without aerial equipment when rules are strict.
#49. Do we need Social Security numbers?
If you have a Social Security number, you must provide it, but having one is not required for marriage. Foreign visitors or undocumented residents may leave that section blank. California’s system allows flexibility for everyone. We never share personal data beyond the official filing. Our goal is to remove every barrier so you can marry freely and confidently.
#50. How long does the ceremony itself last?
Most elopement ceremonies last five to ten minutes, depending on your chosen vows. We keep things heartfelt but concise, perfect for same-day schedules. Couples may add brief readings or ring exchanges. The entire legal portion takes less than half an hour including signing. Fast, elegant, and meaningful—that’s our specialty.
#51. Do you serve non-English-speaking couples?
Yes, through bilingual officiants and translators. Understanding your vows is crucial for legal consent, so we ensure clarity in any language. We routinely assist Spanish-, Tagalog-, Korean-, and Mandarin-speaking couples. Communication is handled respectfully and accurately. Everyone deserves a ceremony they fully understand and cherish.
#52. What if our country is not part of the Hague Apostille Convention?
No problem. Our legalization partners handle embassy authentication for countries outside the Hague Convention. They’ll prepare your certified marriage certificate for recognition abroad through proper consular channels. This service prevents document rejection in foreign jurisdictions. It’s optional but highly recommended for international couples. We’ll explain costs and timelines clearly before proceeding.
#53. Do we need a prenuptial agreement before marriage?
No. Prenuptial agreements are entirely optional and separate from marriage licensing. If you have one, it must be executed before the ceremony and typically notarized. We don’t provide legal advice but can notarize the document if already prepared. Lack of a prenup never delays your marriage. Most eloping couples simply proceed without one.
#54. Can you arrange interpreters for other languages?
Yes. With advance notice we can schedule certified interpreters for nearly any language, in person or by phone. This ensures each participant comprehends the vows and declarations. Interpreters are familiar with marriage scripts for smooth flow. Fees are modest and discussed upfront. Inclusivity is part of our mission.
#55. Can we bring our own officiant?
If we issue the license, one of our authorized officiants must perform or co-officiate to meet state regulations. However, you can invite a friend or relative to share readings or blessings. For couples bringing an external officiant, we can still provide guidance or file the paperwork. The collaboration keeps your ceremony both personal and legally binding. Flexibility is always our approach.
#56. Is there a waiting period before we can marry?
No waiting period exists in California. You can marry immediately after receiving your license. This allows same-day issuance and ceremony with zero delay. Bring proper ID and any required divorce proof, and we’ll handle the rest. Instant weddings are our specialty, handled legally and efficiently.
#57. Can we customize the ceremony script?
Yes, we encourage personalization. You may include custom vows, readings, or brief symbolic gestures. Our officiants keep the legal phrases intact but integrate your wording seamlessly. We review your script in advance to maintain timing and clarity. Every elopement should reflect who you are as a couple.
#58. Do witnesses have to be relatives?
No, any competent adult may act as a witness for public licenses. Friends, coworkers, or even strangers present can sign if willing. Witnesses must be at least 18 and understand the ceremony’s significance. We can also supply a witness if needed. Confidential licenses eliminate this requirement entirely.
#59. What should we wear?
There are no dress codes—wear what expresses you best. Many couples choose casual beach attire, while others opt for formal gowns and suits. Comfort matters most, especially outdoors. Light fabrics and flat shoes suit coastal settings perfectly. Whatever you choose, your joy is the highlight of every photo.
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#76. Can we have a sunrise or sunset elopement?
Absolutely. Many couples love the calm and beauty of dawn or the romantic glow of sunset. We coordinate with you on timing, parking, and lighting so that everything runs smoothly. Early or late ceremonies also mean fewer crowds at popular beaches and parks. Our officiants are accustomed to flexible hours, ensuring your dream light conditions are met exactly when you want to say “I do.”
#77. Can Get Married Today provide a photographer?
Yes. We partner with experienced photographers who specialize in quick, elegant elopement coverage. Whether you want a few portraits or a mini session before and after the ceremony, we can tailor a package. They know how to work efficiently so the legal portion stays on schedule. You’ll receive edited images that capture your same-day celebration perfectly, usually within a few days.
#78. What if we want to bring a few guests?
You’re welcome to invite guests, provided the space allows. We recommend keeping groups small for elopements to maintain intimacy and avoid permit complications at public locations. Guests should arrive early so the ceremony can start promptly once the license is issued. Larger groups may require a designated area or private venue, which we can suggest. Our officiants are comfortable managing groups of all sizes with grace and efficiency.
#79. Do you perform LGBTQ+ weddings?
Yes. Get Married Today proudly officiates weddings for all couples, regardless of gender identity or orientation. The legal process and license requirements are identical for everyone under California law. We create an affirming, inclusive environment where every couple feels celebrated. Our officiants are trained to use your preferred names and pronouns throughout the ceremony. Love is love, and your marriage will be treated with the same respect and legality as any other.
#80. Can we include personal readings or cultural rituals?
Of course. You may incorporate short readings, prayers, or cultural traditions such as a unity candle, sand pouring, or handfasting. We simply ensure the legal statements remain intact so the marriage meets California’s requirements. Discuss your ideas in advance so our officiant can plan transitions smoothly. Including personal touches makes your elopement memorable while keeping the official process efficient. We love ceremonies that reflect each couple’s background and personality.
#81. What happens if it rains on our ceremony day?
Weather in California is usually pleasant, but we always plan a backup. If light rain occurs, many couples proceed under umbrellas for a romantic touch. For heavier conditions we can move to a covered area, nearby gazebo, or indoor chapel space. Rescheduling within the same day is often possible at no extra cost. We monitor forecasts closely and stay in contact so you’re never left uncertain.
#82. Can we elope if one partner has limited mobility?
Yes. Accessibility is very important to us. We suggest flat, paved, or ramp-equipped locations such as piers, overlooks, and accessible parks. Our officiants bring portable signing surfaces and adapt to any physical needs. We’ve successfully married couples in hospitals, rehab centers, and private homes. Everyone deserves an easy, dignified ceremony experience regardless of mobility challenges.
#83. Are courthouse marriages different from what you offer?
Legally, no—our ceremonies carry the same authority as a courthouse marriage. The difference is convenience, privacy, and personalization. We issue your license directly and perform the ceremony wherever you wish, without waiting in government lines. Couples appreciate being able to marry evenings or weekends instead of during business hours. It’s the same legal marriage, delivered faster and with far more comfort.
#84. Can we get married if we lost our IDs?
You must present valid government identification for the license. If an ID is lost or expired, you’ll need to obtain a replacement or alternate acceptable form, such as a passport. California law prohibits issuing a license without verifying identity. Contact us beforehand so we can confirm what documentation will work. Once proper ID is in hand, we can proceed immediately with the marriage process.
#85. How soon will our marriage be recorded?
After the ceremony, Get Married Today files your completed license with the county clerk within a few business days. Recording typically takes one to three weeks, depending on county workload. Once recorded, your marriage becomes a permanent public or confidential record. You can then order certified copies directly from the county or through our guidance. We track filings carefully to ensure nothing falls through the cracks.
#86. Can we have a bilingual ceremony?
Yes. Many of our officiants are bilingual in English and Spanish, and we can arrange interpreters for other languages when requested in advance. Each participant must understand the ceremony to consent legally, so translation support ensures compliance. We can alternate languages line by line or provide full segments in both. Couples appreciate hearing vows spoken in the languages closest to their hearts. It’s a beautiful way to honor family and culture.
#87. Are pets allowed at our elopement?
Often yes, especially at outdoor or private venues. Many couples include dogs as “ring bearers” or witnesses in photos. Check location rules—some beaches restrict animals during certain hours or seasons. Always keep pets leashed and bring cleanup supplies. If the location forbids animals, we can recommend pet-friendly alternatives nearby so your furry friend can still join your celebration.
#88. How do we change our last name after marriage?
Once your marriage certificate is recorded, you may use it to update your name with the Social Security Administration, DMV, passport office, and banks. Each agency requires a certified copy, which you can request through us or directly from the county. We provide guidance and forms to streamline this process. Typically, name changes take a few weeks once you submit the new documents. Having certified copies ready makes transitions much smoother.
#89. What attire should we wear for an elopement?
Elopements allow full flexibility—anything from formal wedding gowns to casual beach attire is welcome. We advise comfortable shoes for sand or uneven ground and layers for coastal breezes. Some couples coordinate simple color themes for photos. Because the focus is intimacy, there’s no pressure to dress traditionally. Wear whatever makes you feel joyful and authentic on your wedding day.
#90. Can military members get married before deployment?
Yes, and we regularly assist military couples needing urgent ceremonies before deployment or relocation. We can meet near bases such as Camp Pendleton and handle everything in one visit. Confidential licenses work well for privacy and quick turnaround. Our team respects tight schedules and can file immediately after the ceremony. Many service members appreciate how we simplify the process during stressful timelines.
#91. How early should we arrive for our appointment?
Arriving ten to fifteen minutes early ensures time for ID verification and paperwork review. This helps keep the schedule punctual, especially when multiple couples are booked that day. Bring all required documents and any remaining balance payment. If you’re running late, text or call us so we can adjust timing if possible. We aim to keep your experience smooth and stress-free from start to finish.
#92. Can we livestream the ceremony for family abroad?
Certainly. Couples often stream via phones or small cameras so relatives worldwide can witness the moment. Choose a location with strong cellular signal or Wi-Fi, and assign a friend to manage the feed. Our officiant simply ensures cameras don’t obstruct the signing area. Livestreaming keeps loved ones included without complicating the legal side. We’re happy to pause briefly for a connection check before beginning.
#93. What if one of us cannot speak English?
We can conduct bilingual ceremonies or arrange a certified interpreter to translate every legal statement. California law requires both parties to understand and consent to the marriage vows. Providing interpretation guarantees your ceremony remains valid and fair. Let us know the needed language when booking so we can prepare appropriately. We value clear communication as much as heartfelt celebration.
#94. Do you offer symbolic ceremonies after legal filing?
Yes. Some couples complete the legal ceremony privately, then host a symbolic or religious event later. The symbolic celebration has no additional paperwork but can include any traditions you wish. This two-step approach keeps the legal process quick and easy while allowing a larger gathering afterward. Many international couples use this option before a destination celebration abroad. We’ll help you plan both timelines smoothly.
#95. What forms of payment do you take for mobile services?
For mobile officiant appointments we accept credit cards, debit, Zelle, Venmo, or cash. Deposits secure travel arrangements and staff scheduling. All transactions are confirmed with electronic receipts for transparency. We keep pricing simple: one rate for the license, one for travel, and optional add-ons if requested. Our goal is to provide straightforward, no-surprise billing that matches our fast and friendly service.
#96. How soon can we get certified copies?
Counties usually process marriage records within two to six weeks. Once available, you can order certified copies by mail, online, or through our assistance program. These certified copies serve as legal proof for name changes, insurance, and other documentation. We monitor your filing and notify you when it’s ready to request copies. Quick filing and follow-up are part of what makes Get Married Today trusted statewide.
#97. Can we elope if we are on a visa or tourist stay?
Yes. Visitors on any lawful status can marry in California without residency requirements. The marriage is recognized internationally once you obtain a certified copy and, if necessary, an apostille. We’ll guide you through those next steps after your ceremony. Eloping during travel is simple, legal, and romantic all at once. Countless international couples choose California for exactly this reason.
#98. What’s included in your same-day elopement package?
Our standard package includes issuance of the marriage license, officiant service, ceremony, filing with the county, and basic guidance on obtaining certified copies. You can add extras such as photography, floral arrangements, or witnesses. We tailor each booking to your priorities so you pay only for what you need. Everything happens in one convenient appointment. Couples appreciate how efficiently we combine all steps into a single, beautiful experience.
#99. Can we marry at a park or public garden?
Yes, many parks and gardens allow small ceremonies without major permits, especially for groups under ten. We’ll confirm location-specific rules and recommend quiet, scenic spots. A simple setup—just the couple and officiant—usually qualifies as an elopement under most guidelines. We always respect park regulations to keep the environment pristine. Nature-based ceremonies create stunning photos and lasting memories.
#100. How far in advance can we book?
You can reserve your appointment weeks or even months ahead. Early booking secures preferred times such as sunset or weekends. However, spontaneous same-day weddings remain our specialty, and we often fit couples in with only a few hours’ notice. Planning early simply offers more choices of location and photographer availability. Either way, we respond quickly to confirm every detail in writing.
#101. Can we renew our vows through Get Married Today?
Yes. Vow renewals are symbolic ceremonies reaffirming your commitment without new legal paperwork. We personalize them much like elopements, sometimes even revisiting the original location. Families often join to celebrate milestone anniversaries. These events are heartfelt, flexible, and quick to schedule. Whether ten months or ten years later, we’d love to help you say “I still do.”
#102. Do you serve Northern California?
Our base network covers Southern California from Santa Barbara to San Diego, but we can refer partner officiants statewide. If you’re planning to elope farther north, we’ll connect you with trusted colleagues trained in the same one-stop process. They follow identical standards for issuing licenses and filing. This ensures consistency and legal validity anywhere in California. Reach out and we’ll coordinate logistics seamlessly.
#103. How do we cancel or reschedule?
Simply call, text, or email us. With reasonable notice, we can reschedule without penalty to a new date or location. Last-minute cancellations may incur small fees to cover reserved staff time. We keep policies fair because unexpected events happen. Communication early helps us keep flexibility open for all couples.
#104. Can family members act as witnesses?
Yes, any adult who understands what they are signing may serve as a witness for a public license. Many couples choose parents, siblings, or best friends. If no one is available, we can provide an in-house witness. Witnesses sign immediately after the ceremony, finalizing the document before filing. It’s a simple but meaningful role in your special day.
#105. Do you file our paperwork electronically?
We hand-deliver or securely mail the physical marriage license to the county recorder for official entry, per California requirements. Some counties then digitize and record it within days. We track receipt confirmations and keep you updated. This careful process prevents loss or delay of your legal record. You’ll know exactly when your marriage has been officially registered.
#106. Can you provide a decorative keepsake certificate?
Yes, many couples enjoy a commemorative certificate to display while awaiting official copies. We design elegant keepsakes printed on premium paper with your ceremony details. It’s purely decorative and not a legal document but makes a lovely memento. You can request it during booking or afterward. It’s our small way of adding celebration to your paperwork-free day.
#107. What should we bring besides IDs?
Bring valid identification, any necessary divorce documentation, payment for services, and your rings if exchanging them. We supply pens, clipboards, and all legal forms. Optional items include vows, bouquet, or props for photos. Keeping essentials organized speeds up the appointment. If uncertain, call us beforehand and we’ll confirm your checklist personally.
#108. Can we have music during our ceremony?
Yes, soft background music or a brief song is welcome. Portable speakers or live musicians are fine where permitted. Volume should respect public spaces and nearby visitors. Romantic instrumental tracks create ambiance without overpowering vows. We’ll let you know any restrictions based on your chosen site.
#109. Do you help with international paperwork afterward?
While we focus on marriages, we partner with apostille specialists who authenticate certificates for use abroad. After your marriage is recorded, they can secure the required stamps and translations. This service helps couples planning visas, residence, or citizenship recognition overseas. It’s entirely optional but convenient for international couples. We’ll refer you directly so your documentation remains seamless from start to finish.
#110. How do confidential records stay private?
Confidential licenses are filed in a separate section of the county’s registry accessible only to the spouses. Certified copies require notarized requests from either partner. This keeps personal details off public indexes and search results. Many celebrities and professionals choose this format for discretion. It provides full legal recognition with maximum privacy.
#111. Can we switch from public to confidential at the appointment?
Yes, as long as the license hasn’t yet been issued or signed, we can change the type. Once printed, it cannot be converted, so inform us early of your preference. We’ll explain differences and confirm which meets your privacy goals. The process time is identical either way. Flexibility before signing ensures you receive the license that best suits your situation.
#112. Are same-day marriages recognized in other states?
Yes. A California marriage is valid across all U.S. states and territories once properly filed. There is no need to register it elsewhere. If you move, simply use certified copies for name changes or benefits. Our licenses meet every national standard. Couples nationwide rely on California’s straightforward process for secure, legal marriages.
#113. How do we contact Get Married Today for questions?
You can reach
#113. How do we contact Get Married Today for questions?
You can reach us by phone, text, or through our website’s contact form at GetMarried.Today. Our coordinators respond quickly, often within minutes, to help you with scheduling, pricing, or required documents. You may also email us directly for special requests like beach permits or bilingual officiants. We pride ourselves on fast, friendly, and knowledgeable service seven days a week. Whether you’re ready to book or just gathering information, we’re here to guide you through every step.
#114. Can we get married if one of us is in the hospital?
Yes. We perform bedside and hospital-room ceremonies throughout Southern California. We coordinate with hospital staff to verify identification and access, ensuring a respectful and private environment. Our officiants bring the required documents and issue the license on-site. Couples often appreciate how compassionate and flexible this service is during emotional times. Love should never wait, and we make sure it doesn’t have to.
#115. What if one partner is incarcerated?
Marriages within correctional or detention facilities are possible with proper permissions. Each facility sets its own process for scheduling, ID verification, and witness access. We’ve handled many such cases and can explain what forms are required. Expect some extra coordination time due to security policies. Despite the setting, the marriage itself remains legally binding and just as meaningful.
#116. Do you handle vow renewals for long-married couples?
Yes, we love performing vow renewals for anniversaries or recommitments. These are symbolic ceremonies—no license or filing is required—but we treat them with the same care as a wedding. You can personalize readings, include children, or recreate your first ceremony. We can host renewals anywhere from beaches to backyards. It’s a beautiful way to celebrate lasting love.
#117. Can we combine our elopement with a photo or video session?
Absolutely. We work closely with professional photographers and videographers who specialize in elopements. They understand the brief but emotional nature of same-day ceremonies and can capture both candid and posed moments. Packages range from short 15-minute shoots to full-hour sessions. You’ll receive high-quality edited photos that preserve every memory from your spontaneous wedding day. Visual storytelling enhances your keepsakes forever.
#118. What’s the process for getting married at the beach?
Beach weddings start by choosing your preferred coastline, such as Laguna, Huntington, or Coronado. We confirm any permit requirements and suggest times with the best light and fewest crowds. On the day of, you meet our officiant with valid IDs, we issue the license, and conduct your ceremony right on the sand. Afterward, we sign and file the documents immediately. It’s the simplest, most picturesque way to marry legally and romantically all in one step.
#119. Can we add a unity ceremony like sand or candle lighting?
Yes, unity elements are wonderful symbolic additions. The sand ceremony is particularly popular for beach elopements, representing two lives blending together. We simply ask that materials are environmentally friendly and that candles aren’t used in windy areas. These gestures personalize your ceremony while keeping the legal framework intact. Our officiants will seamlessly include them at the right moment.
#120. How do you ensure our paperwork isn’t lost?
We follow strict filing procedures and maintain digital and paper tracking for every license we process. Licenses are hand-delivered or sent via secure mail to the county clerk within days of the ceremony. You receive confirmation once it’s accepted. Our proven system prevents errors and delays, ensuring your record is safely recorded. We’ve processed thousands of marriages with a perfect track record.
#121. What areas do you serve in Southern California?
We cover all major counties including Los Angeles, Orange, Riverside, San Diego, and Ventura. Our mobile officiants travel between Santa Barbara and San Diego every day. Whether you prefer beaches, city halls, or mountain overlooks, we’ll meet you there. Travel fees are modest and disclosed in advance. No couple is too far for us to help get married today.
#122. Are drones or professional cameras allowed at the ceremony?
Professional photographers and videographers are welcome as long as they follow location rules. Some beaches restrict drone flights or tripods without permits. We’ll guide your team on what’s allowed. As long as gear stays discreet and doesn’t obstruct the ceremony, it’s fine. Great visuals make your elopement even more unforgettable.
#123. Can we get married at sunrise?
Yes, sunrise ceremonies are among the most peaceful and private experiences. Early light creates stunning photos and avoids beach crowds. Our officiants happily meet you before dawn to make it happen. Just let us know in advance so we can plan travel time. The fresh start of the day pairs beautifully with the beginning of your married life.
#124. What if we want a night ceremony?
Night elopements under the stars or city lights are both romantic and practical. We carry small, portable lights for visibility when signing documents. Some beaches close after sunset, but we can suggest 24-hour accessible overlooks. Evening ceremonies often have cooler weather and extra privacy. It’s your day, your time, and our team adapts to make it magical.
#125. Can we get married without telling family or friends?
Yes, many couples elope privately for personal or practical reasons. Confidential licenses keep your record sealed from public view, adding an extra layer of discretion. You can later choose to share the news or hold a celebration. We respect your privacy completely and treat all information as confidential. Your secret is safe and your marriage remains fully legal.
#126. What’s the difference between eloping and a micro-wedding?
Elopements are typically just the couple and officiant, while micro-weddings include a few close guests or minimal décor. Both are intimate and stress-free alternatives to large events. We handle both styles seamlessly, customizing the tone and logistics. Whether you want total privacy or a small circle of loved ones, the legal process remains identical. The main difference is simply scale and guest count.
#127. Can we marry if our IDs show different states or countries?
Yes. It’s common for partners to have IDs from different states or nations. We simply verify both are valid and unexpired. The license records your residence but does not restrict where you may marry. California welcomes couples from everywhere to legally wed here. Mixed-residence couples choose us precisely because the process is so straightforward.
#128. How do you confirm our identities?
Our officiants inspect each government-issued ID to verify photo, birth date, and signature. We log key details onto the license application and ensure both parties appear in person. This protects against fraud and ensures compliance with California Family Code. We never store or share copies beyond official use. Transparency and accuracy are our top priorities in every ceremony.
#129. Can we include our children in the ceremony?
Absolutely. Many couples involve children by having them hold rings, read a poem, or participate in a unity ritual. It’s a lovely way to symbolize the blending of families. Kids attending should arrive a few minutes early to get comfortable. Our officiants ensure the moment remains gentle, meaningful, and family-friendly. These shared memories last a lifetime for everyone.
#130. Do you help with special accessibility needs?
Yes. We accommodate wheelchairs, walkers, and other mobility aids by selecting accessible sites and bringing portable signing surfaces. Let us know in advance so we can plan parking and pathways. Inclusivity is part of our service philosophy. Every couple deserves a ceremony that’s comfortable, safe, and dignified. We adapt fully to your physical needs without compromising beauty or legality.
#131. How can we make our elopement feel extra special?
Small touches make a big difference—bring personal vows, a playlist, matching outfits, or meaningful jewelry. Consider a photographer or small bouquet for extra elegance. Even a short celebration afterward, like a dinner or sunset walk, marks the moment beautifully. We’ll help you plan little details that reflect your love story. Elopements are intimate by nature, so every thoughtful detail shines brighter.
#132. Can we get a refund if we cancel?
Refund policies depend on notice timing and whether the license has been issued. If you cancel early, deposits may apply toward a future booking. Once a license is printed, fees paid to the county are non-refundable, but ceremony portions may be credited. We always aim for fairness and understanding. Communication is key so we can adjust arrangements appropriately.
#133. How do you protect our personal data?
All client information is stored securely and shared only with county officials for legal filing. We follow strict confidentiality protocols and never sell or distribute data. Online payments use encrypted processors to safeguard financial details. Our staff are trained in privacy compliance and professional discretion. You can trust that your documentation remains private from start to finish.
#134. Can we receive a digital copy of our license right away?
State law requires physical signatures on the official marriage license, so the document itself isn’t digital. However, we can email you a scanned keepsake copy for personal records. The certified copy you’ll later request from the county will serve as your legal proof. Digital versions are helpful reminders but not official replacements. We clarify these distinctions to prevent confusion after your wedding.
#135. Do you provide witnesses if we don’t have any?
Yes. Our team can provide a witness for public licenses at no additional charge in most cases. Simply request one when booking so we can schedule accordingly. Confidential licenses require no witnesses at all. Having this option removes stress for couples traveling alone. You’ll never have to delay your ceremony for lack of a witness.
#136. How soon can we get married after a divorce?
As soon as your divorce is finalized and you have the date of termination, you’re eligible to marry again. California imposes no waiting period beyond the final judgment. Bring the certified decree if it was finalized recently or within the last 90 days. We verify it quickly and proceed with your new license. Many couples celebrate fresh starts the very same week.
#137. Can we marry in one county but live in another?
Yes. California marriage licenses are valid statewide regardless of county of residence. For example, you can obtain a license in Orange County and marry in Los Angeles or San Diego. We take care of filing with the issuing county afterward. There are no jurisdictional limits within California. This flexibility allows couples to pick any beautiful spot they desire.
#138. Can you officiate on short notice in remote areas?
Usually yes, as long as travel time permits. Our mobile officiants reach mountain cabins, desert resorts, and rural estates regularly. Additional mileage fees may apply, but we coordinate quickly. We love adventurous elopements that make your day uniquely yours. With proper planning, even remote ceremonies can be executed the same day you call.
#139. What should we expect during the appointment?
You’ll first verify identification and fill out a brief license application. Our officiant reviews details, issues the license, and guides you through the ceremony script. After signing, we complete all required fields and file the document with the county. You’ll leave knowing everything is legally handled. The process feels relaxed, organized, and joyful from start to finish.
#140. Can you provide references or reviews from past couples?
Yes. We proudly maintain five-star ratings on Google and other platforms. You can read real testimonials describing our professionalism, speed, and friendliness. Many couples mention how stress-free and heartfelt their experience was. We’re happy to share examples upon request. Client satisfaction is the best measure of our success at Get Married Today.
#141. Do you operate during government shutdowns or office closures?
Yes. Because we’re authorized independent officiants, we can issue and file licenses even when some county offices close temporarily. Our system keeps the marriage process running without delay. Couples appreciate this reliability during unpredictable times. We ensure every record is filed the moment the clerk reopens. Your marriage plans never need to be postponed due to bureaucracy.
#142. How do you verify the legality of each ceremony?
All officiants under Get Married Today hold authorization as California Deputy Commissioners of Civil Marriages. We follow state protocols exactly, ensuring each marriage meets statutory requirements. Each license is reviewed for accuracy before submission. These checks safeguard against errors and guarantee your union is fully lawful. You can trust the same integrity you’d expect from a county office—just faster.
#143. Can we include religious elements?
Yes, you may include blessings, readings, or short prayers if desired. While our ceremonies are civil by default, we respect all faith traditions. Religious elements are optional and can be led by you, a family member, or your officiant. We simply maintain the required legal declarations. This flexibility allows couples to express both love and spirituality authentically.
#144. What if we forget our rings?
No problem! Rings are a symbolic tradition, not a legal requirement. You can exchange them later, substitute another gesture, or proceed without them. Our officiant adjusts the script accordingly so the moment still feels complete. Couples often laugh and improvise with creativity. The important part is your commitment, not the jewelry.
#145. Can we marry under assumed or stage names?
No. All marriage licenses must reflect your legal names exactly as shown on identification. Using stage or nicknames could invalidate the license. However, you may include them in vows or symbolic materials like keepsake certificates. After marriage, you can legally change names if desired. We help you handle that process through certified copies later.
#146. How do we obtain extra certified copies later?
You can request additional certified copies anytime from the county clerk that recorded your marriage. We provide the forms and instructions. Most counties also allow online or mail-in orders for convenience. Certified copies arrive within a few weeks depending on workload. Having extras is helpful for passports, banks, or other agencies needing proof of marriage.
#147. Do you travel outside California?
Our authority to issue marriage licenses applies only within California, but we can travel just across borders for symbolic ceremonies. For legal marriages, both issuance and ceremony must occur inside the state. Out-of-state couples often meet us near California’s entry points for convenience. We love helping destination travelers tie the knot the moment they arrive. Wherever love takes you, we’ll find the closest legal solution.
#148. Can we include live music or a musician?
Yes, small acoustic performances like guitar or violin add wonderful ambiance. Many public areas allow live music if kept under noise limits. We’ll verify location regulations and coordinate timing. Soft instrumental tunes create atmosphere without drowning out vows. Music always makes moments feel more personal and celebratory.
#149. What makes Get Married Today different from other services?
Our one-stop process combines license issuance, officiating, and legal filing all in one appointment. We’re fast, legally authorized, and entirely mobile, covering California’s most scenic locations. Our clients praise us for transparency, warmth, and reliability. Unlike others, we never outsource critical steps—you deal directly with authorized officiants. Couples choose us because we make getting married as joyful and simple as it should be.
#150. How do we book our elopement or same-day marriage?
Booking is simple—visit getmarried.today/book or call us directly to reserve your date and time. We’ll confirm availability, send payment details, and email your confirmation. Bring valid IDs and any necessary divorce documentation to your appointment. The license, ceremony, and filing all happen in one seamless visit. You’ll walk away officially and happily married, no courthouse required.
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