FAQs
These FAQs cover the most common questions couples ask about getting legally married with Get Married Today, including confidential marriage licenses, same-day ceremonies, mobile services, holidays, hospital visits, proof of marriage, international use, and scheduling options. Responses are detailed so you can make decisions quickly and confidently—without needing a courthouse workflow.
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TITLE: FAQs
PURPOSE:
- Provide clear answers about licenses, ceremonies, filing, proof, mobile service, guests, and special scenarios.
- Help couples choose the correct service type without confusion.
NON-NEGOTIABLE REQUIREMENTS:
- Both parties must have valid government-issued photo ID.
- Both parties must be coherent enough to understand, answer questions, and freely consent.
CORE SERVICE TYPES:
- License only (office or mobile): for couples with their own officiant.
- Ceremony only (office or mobile): for couples who already have a license.
- License + ceremony: all-in-one appointment.
IMPORTANT NOTES:
- Government fees and certified copy fees are paid separately (as required by the county/state).
- International use may require certified copies and an apostille/legalization workflow.
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Frequently Asked Questions (80)
Use the search field above to quickly find a topic. Each answer is written to be practical and specific (4–6 sentences), covering what couples typically need to know before booking.
1) What services does Get Married Today provide?+
Get Married Today provides streamlined legal marriage services in California, including confidential marriage license issuance and officiant ceremonies. Couples can choose license-only, ceremony-only, or an all-in-one license + ceremony appointment. Services are available in-office and, for many scenarios, as mobile service at your location. The goal is to complete the legal process efficiently while maintaining a professional, private experience.
2) Can we get married the same day?+
Many couples can complete their marriage in a single day depending on availability and eligibility. Same-day options typically work best when both partners arrive prepared with valid ID and required information for the license. If you need both the license and ceremony, booking an all-in-one package is the most direct route. For urgent timelines, mobile options may also be available.
3) Do we need to go to the courthouse or county clerk?+
In many cases, no. Get Married Today offers workflows that can avoid courthouse lines by issuing confidential marriage licenses through authorized processes. You will still be legally married under California rules, with proper signing and filing steps handled. If you already have a license from the county, you can book ceremony-only services instead. Your service type depends on what you already have and what you need next.
4) What does “confidential marriage license” mean?+
A confidential marriage license is a legal California marriage license where the record is not publicly searchable in the same way as a public license. It’s commonly chosen by couples who value privacy or prefer a simpler administrative pathway. Confidential licenses typically do not require witness signatures, which can make ceremony logistics easier. Eligibility rules still apply, and you must meet California requirements to use this license type.
5) Do we need witnesses?+
For many couples using a confidential marriage license, witnesses are not required. This is one reason confidential licensing is popular for private or urgent marriages. If you are using a public license issued elsewhere, witness requirements may differ based on that license type. If you’re unsure, bring at least one guest or ask for guidance before your appointment.
6) What IDs do we need to bring?+
Both partners must bring valid, government-issued photo identification. Common examples include a driver’s license, state ID, passport, or military ID. IDs must be current and readable so identity can be verified properly. Without valid ID for both parties, a legal license issuance cannot proceed.
7) What does “both parties must be coherent enough” mean?+
It means both partners must be able to understand what they’re signing and clearly consent to marriage. You must be able to answer basic questions and demonstrate that you are acting voluntarily. If someone appears impaired, heavily sedated, or unable to communicate consent, the appointment may not proceed. This protects the couple and ensures the marriage is legally valid.
8) Can we get married if one of us is in the hospital?+
In many cases, mobile service can be arranged for hospitals or care facilities when permitted by facility rules. Both parties still must have valid ID and must be coherent enough to consent at the time of signing and ceremony. Hospital procedures, visiting hours, and room access rules can affect timing. It’s wise to plan for a simple, efficient ceremony and ensure all documents are ready.
9) Do you provide 24/7 services?+
Some services can be available outside standard business hours depending on staff availability, location, and scheduling logistics. After-hours requests often come from hospital situations, military timelines, or urgent travel. The exact availability can vary by date, including holidays. When booking, choose the service option that matches your timing needs.
10) Can we get married on holidays?+
Holiday availability depends on staffing, building access, and scheduling demand. Many couples choose holiday options because courthouses are often closed or fully booked. If you’re targeting a specific holiday, it’s best to book early and be flexible with time windows. The key is ensuring you still meet ID and consent requirements on the day of service.
11) Can we get married at our location (home, beach, venue)?+
Yes—mobile services are designed for couples who want a private marriage outside a government setting. Common locations include private residences, beaches, hotels, rented venues, and in some cases hospitals or care facilities. Travel rules may apply depending on distance from the closest office region. Mobile services are especially popular for elopements and small intimate ceremonies.
12) What’s the difference between “license-only” and “ceremony-only”?+
License-only is for couples who need the marriage license but already have their own officiant. Ceremony-only is for couples who already have a valid marriage license and need an officiant to perform the legal ceremony. Many couples choose all-in-one license + ceremony if they want everything handled at once. Choosing the correct service depends on what you already have and your timeline.
13) How long does the appointment usually take?+
Timing depends on the service type, whether paperwork is complete, and whether you’re doing license issuance, ceremony, or both. Many office appointments are designed to be efficient, especially for couple-only services. Mobile appointments can take longer due to travel, setup, and location access rules. The best way to keep things fast is to arrive prepared with ID and correct personal details.
14) Do we need an appointment?+
Most couples book an appointment to ensure the correct staff and resources are scheduled. This is especially important for evening, holiday, balcony, or mobile services. Booking also helps prevent conflicts with other couples and ensures the license and ceremony can be completed in one visit when desired. If you need urgent service, select the best matching option in the shop and follow the instructions provided.
15) Can tourists or non-U.S. citizens get married in California?+
In general, California marriage laws do not require U.S. citizenship to get married. You must still present valid photo ID and meet eligibility rules such as age and marital status. International couples often choose confidential licensing for privacy and simplicity. If you will use the marriage certificate abroad, you may later need certified copies and an apostille/legalization workflow.
16) Do you serve same-sex couples?+
Yes. Same-sex couples can be legally married in California and can use the same service options as any other couple. The process, requirements, and documentation are the same: valid ID, capacity to consent, and proper completion of license and ceremony steps. Many couples choose confidential licenses for privacy and convenience. The service is designed to be respectful, clear, and legally correct.
17) Can we get married for immigration reasons?+
Many couples marry to support immigration timelines, such as adjusting status or documenting a bona fide relationship. Get Married Today focuses on completing a legally valid marriage with correct paperwork and filing. You should still follow legal advice for your specific immigration case and requirements. For international use, you may need certified copies and, in many cases, apostille or legalization support.
18) Can we get married for employer benefits or open enrollment?+
Yes, many couples marry specifically to qualify for employer benefits or to meet open-enrollment deadlines. The key is obtaining proof of marriage promptly and ensuring the marriage is legally completed and filed. Employers may require a certified copy of the marriage certificate, so plan ahead if you need multiple copies. A couple-only same-day option is often chosen for speed.
19) Can we get married for tax reasons before year-end?+
Some couples choose to marry before the end of the year to align with tax planning and filing status. The legal marriage date is determined by the ceremony/signing completion and the executed license. If you need documentation quickly, plan for certified copies and understand processing timelines. The best approach is a simple legal marriage followed by the documentation you need for your records.
20) Can we remarry each other if we were previously married?+
Yes, couples can remarry each other if they are legally eligible to marry. Prior marriages must be properly ended through divorce, annulment, or death, and documentation may be needed depending on recency and the license requirements. Many couples prefer a private, meaningful ceremony for a second marriage. The process is similar to any other marriage: ID, eligibility, and correct completion of paperwork.
21) What if one of us was recently divorced?+
If a divorce was recent, you may need to provide documentation such as a final divorce decree, especially when required by specific licensing rules. The most important point is that the prior marriage must be legally terminated before a new marriage can be completed. If you are unsure, gather your documents and confirm your status before booking. This helps avoid delays on the day of service.
22) What if we have different last names or spelling differences on IDs?+
Name variations can sometimes be handled, but consistency matters for accurate paperwork and future certificate use. It’s best to bring the ID you intend to use for the license and ensure the spelling is correct and current. If you anticipate issues, plan ahead for additional documentation where appropriate. Accurate entry reduces delays and helps avoid complications when ordering certified copies later.
23) How do we get proof of marriage right away?+
“Proof of marriage” can refer to different documents depending on what you need. Immediately after your ceremony, you may have confirmation of the completed legal process, but certified copies typically come from the county after filing and processing. If you need proof for benefits or immigration, clarify whether a certified copy is required. Planning for certified copies early can prevent last-minute issues.
24) How does filing with the county work?+
After the license is properly completed and signed, it must be filed according to county rules. Filing is part of the legal registration process that creates the official record of marriage. Processing times vary depending on county workflows and volume. Once filed and processed, you can order certified copies from the county.
25) How do we order certified copies of our marriage certificate?+
Certified copies are issued by the county recorder or the appropriate county office after the license has been filed and processed. You may need to provide identifying information and pay a per-copy government fee. Some counties allow online ordering while others require mail or in-person requests. If you expect to use your certificate for multiple purposes, consider ordering more than one certified copy.
26) What if we need our marriage certificate for another country?+
Many countries require a certified copy of the marriage certificate plus an apostille or legalization step. The first step is usually obtaining certified copies from the county. Then an apostille service can help you prepare the document for international recognition. Requirements vary by country, so confirm whether you need apostille, embassy legalization, or translation.
27) What is an apostille and when would we need it?+
An apostille is a government authentication attached to a public document (like a marriage certificate) for use internationally in many countries. It confirms the authenticity of the signature and the capacity of the signing official. Couples often need an apostille for immigration, residency, name changes abroad, or registering marriage in another country. The process typically begins after you receive a certified copy from the county.
28) Can you help with notarization or document prep related to marriage?+
Many couples also need notarization for related paperwork, such as affidavits or authorization documents. While Get Married Today focuses on marriage services, partner services may assist with notarization and document workflows. If you have a complex documentation need, it’s best to identify what document is required and where it will be used. This helps determine whether notarization, certified copies, or apostille is the correct next step.
29) Do you offer bilingual or Spanish-speaking officiants?+
Some services may offer Spanish-speaking officiant options depending on availability. If language is important for your ceremony, select the appropriate add-on or service when booking. You can also choose a simple legal script to minimize language complexity while still keeping the moment meaningful. The most important legal aspect is that both parties understand and consent.
30) Can we write our own vows?+
Many couples include short personal vows, ring exchanges, or a brief reading. The ceremony can be customized as long as the essential legal elements are preserved. If you want extensive personalization, plan for a slightly longer appointment. Keep in mind that some packages and time slots prioritize efficiency.
31) Can we bring guests to an office ceremony?+
Guest capacity depends on the service tier and venue configuration. Some options are designed for couple-only speed, while others allow guests in a chapel-style setting. If you expect guests, choose a package that explicitly includes guests and matches your headcount. This helps ensure seating, spacing, and timing are appropriate.
32) What is the “evening/night balcony” option?+
The evening/night balcony option is a venue-style experience designed for couples who want a romantic setting outside the typical office look. It’s often used for intimate celebrations with a small guest count and a cinematic nighttime ambience. The legal marriage components remain the same: correct license, officiant, signing, and filing. Choose it when you want a memorable environment without planning a full-scale wedding.
33) Can we do photos during our appointment?+
Many couples add photography to capture key moments such as vows, ring exchange, and the signing. Photo add-ons can range from simple unedited sets to professionally edited collections. If you want photos at a mobile location, a travel photographer option may be applicable. Planning your photo goals in advance helps keep the appointment smooth.
34) Can you marry us at the beach?+
Mobile ceremonies can be performed at outdoor locations such as beaches, subject to access and local rules. Beach ceremonies are popular for elopements and small gatherings because they feel celebratory without a courthouse setting. Plan for weather, parking, and walking distance so timing stays reliable. Keep the ceremony simple and ensure both parties bring valid ID if license issuance is included.
35) Can you marry us at a hotel or Airbnb?+
Many couples choose hotels or short-term rentals for privacy and convenience. Mobile service can be arranged when location access is allowed and timing is feasible. If you want a quiet and intimate experience, this is one of the easiest setups. Be sure to plan for building access, room entry, and a clean place to sign documents.
36) Can you marry us at a restaurant or public space?+
Public spaces can be possible, but they introduce variables such as noise, crowds, and permission rules. For a legally clean signing experience, it’s usually better to choose a private or semi-private area. If you want a public setting, plan for a quick, simple ceremony and ensure there is a stable surface for paperwork. Always prioritize legal clarity and consent over complex staging.
37) What if we’re running late?+
Late arrivals can affect scheduling because appointments are often tightly booked. Some services may be shortened to preserve the legal essentials, while others may require rescheduling depending on timing and staff availability. If you anticipate delays, plan for traffic and parking and arrive early. Keeping paperwork and IDs ready helps recover time if you arrive late.
38) What if we need to reschedule?+
Rescheduling rules depend on booking terms and availability. Many systems allow transfer to a new date within a defined window when plans change. The best approach is to reschedule as early as possible to preserve the time slot you want. If you’re traveling or facing a hard deadline, choose backup dates in advance.
39) Do you provide ring exchange or vow renewal services?+
Ring exchange can be incorporated into most ceremonies as a symbolic moment. Vow renewals are typically non-legal celebrations and are separate from license issuance. If you want a vow renewal that feels like a wedding, you can still use the same ceremony style and photography options. Make sure you clarify whether you need a legal marriage or a symbolic renewal.
40) Can we do a very short “sign-and-go” ceremony?+
Many couples prefer a minimal legal ceremony that focuses on the essentials. This is common for deadlines like benefits, taxes, deployment, or immigration filings. Even a short ceremony must still include legal consent and proper signing. If you want more personalization, choose a ceremony tier that allows extra time.
41) Can we bring children to the ceremony?+
Children are welcome in many settings, but guest capacity depends on the package and location. In mobile settings, children often attend easily because it’s your private environment. In office settings, space planning matters more. If children will attend, plan for supervision so the signing process stays smooth and uninterrupted.
42) Do you provide a marriage license for couples who live out of state?+
Many out-of-state couples come to California to marry, especially for same-day convenience. The key requirements are valid ID and eligibility to marry under California rules. If you’re visiting from another state, plan your appointment around travel logistics and ensure you have accurate personal information. For international use, plan ahead for certified copies and apostille.
43) Can we use a marriage license from another state in California?+
Marriage licenses generally must be used in the state that issued them, and rules vary by state. If you have a license from another state, you should confirm whether that license can be used in California (often it cannot). Many couples resolve this by obtaining a California license if they plan to marry in California. The correct option depends on where your license was issued and where you will have the ceremony.
44) Can we get married if we don’t have a California driver’s license?+
Yes. A California driver’s license is not required as long as you have valid government-issued photo ID. Passports and other state IDs are commonly accepted. Your ID must be current and readable for verification. The goal is identity verification and proper documentation, not California residency.
45) Can we get married if one of us is pregnant or needs accommodations?+
Yes. Many couples request a comfortable, low-stress setup. Office appointments can be planned for minimal walking and faster processing, and mobile services can be arranged to reduce physical strain. If you need a seated ceremony or shorter duration, a casual legal ceremony is often ideal. The legal requirements remain the same: valid ID and coherent consent.
46) Can we get married if a family member is objecting?+
Marriage is a personal legal decision between the two partners, but it must be voluntary. If someone is pressuring you or you do not feel safe, do not proceed. The service requires that both partners consent freely and understand what is happening. If you need privacy, consider a couple-only appointment.
47) Do you offer very private ceremonies?+
Yes. Many couples choose confidential licenses and couple-only packages specifically for privacy. Mobile service at your location can be even more private than an office setting. A short legal ceremony can be completed without guests if that is your preference. Privacy is one of the main reasons couples choose non-courthouse services.
48) Can we get married if we are in a hurry for travel?+
Yes—same-day options are commonly used for travel timelines. The key is arriving prepared with valid ID and any required information. A couple-only package is typically the fastest route when you need the legal marriage completed quickly. If you need certified copies for travel paperwork, plan ahead for county processing time.
49) Can we get married if one partner is active-duty military?+
Yes. Military couples often book because they have limited windows due to training, deployment, or leave schedules. Bring valid ID, and if you need proof for benefits, plan for certified copies. Some couples choose a same-day couple-only service for speed. If a military member is traveling soon, mobile service may also be considered depending on location and availability.
50) Can you provide guidance for international document use?+
International use typically requires certified copies and then an apostille or legalization process depending on the receiving country. Start by securing certified copies through the county after filing. Then use an apostille provider to prepare the document for international recognition. If translation is required, plan for that step as well so documents match the receiving country’s requirements.
51) What if we need multiple certified copies?+
Many couples order multiple certified copies because different agencies may require originals. Common reasons include immigration filings, benefits enrollment, name change processes, and international registration. Ordering more than one can save time later, especially if you anticipate multiple uses. The county typically charges a per-copy fee for certified copies.
52) Can we get married if we are already planning a big wedding later?+
Yes. Many couples do a legal marriage now and a larger celebration later. This is helpful for benefits, immigration, or planning timelines. The legal ceremony can be simple and efficient, while your later celebration can be fully customized. Make sure you keep track of your legal marriage date for paperwork and records.
53) Can we get married if one partner is under stress or anxious?+
Yes, and many couples appreciate a calm, structured appointment. A short legal ceremony can reduce pressure and keep the moment comfortable. If anxiety is severe, consider bringing a supportive guest (if allowed) or choosing a private setting. The key is that both partners remain coherent and able to consent.
54) Can we get married if we need a quiet environment (sensory needs)?+
Many couples prefer a quiet, low-stimulation ceremony. Private mobile settings can be ideal because you control the environment. Office settings can also be structured to minimize interruptions depending on scheduling. Tell your party in advance to keep voices low and avoid crowding the signing area. A calm environment helps ensure the legal steps are completed accurately.
55) Can we get married if we have no guests at all?+
Yes. Couple-only services are common and often the most efficient for same-day legal marriage. Confidential licensing frequently eliminates witness needs, which supports a guest-free appointment. This option is popular for privacy, time constraints, or personal preference. You can still add a small symbolic moment like rings or brief vows.
56) Can we bring a photographer?+
Yes, most couples can bring a photographer or choose a photo add-on. The best approach is to confirm the guest or vendor capacity for your selected package and location. In mobile settings, photographers are often easy to accommodate. For office settings, keep gear minimal and avoid blocking signing space or walkways.
57) What if we want a very formal ceremony?+
Formal ceremonies may be available depending on the package and setting. Semi-formal options typically provide a more refined feel and can include a chapel-style space. If you want a longer ceremony with readings and multiple guests, choose a package that supports that format. Remember that the legal signing steps still must be completed clearly and correctly.
58) Do you offer services in Orange County and nearby areas?+
Many services are centered around Orange County (including Irvine) with mobile options to nearby regions. Travel rules can apply depending on distance, and scheduling depends on availability. If you’re outside Orange County, consider a mobile option or check for service availability near your location. Planning ahead helps secure your preferred date and time.
59) What if our ceremony location has security or access restrictions?+
Hospitals, care facilities, and some venues have access rules that can affect timing. It’s helpful to coordinate access with staff in advance and plan for a simple ceremony. Ensure there is a stable place to sign documents and that both parties have IDs present. If access is denied, you may need to adjust to a nearby alternative location.
60) Can we get married if one partner is not feeling well?+
Possibly, but legal capacity is essential. The partner must be coherent enough to consent and able to participate in the signing process. If someone is too ill or sedated, the service cannot proceed safely or legally. In urgent situations, a hospital or bedside option may be considered when the requirements are met. Always prioritize health, consent, and legal validity.
61) Do we need to bring our birth certificates?+
Typically, a valid government-issued photo ID is the primary requirement for identity verification. Birth certificates are not usually required for standard adult marriages, but special scenarios can differ. If there is a specific legal reason you suspect additional documentation may be needed, bring it or confirm in advance. Accurate personal information is more important than extra documents in most cases.
62) Can we get married if we’re under 18?+
California has special legal requirements for minors that generally involve court orders and parental consent. These scenarios are more complex and are not handled like typical same-day adult marriages. If you are under 18, you should consult official county guidance and legal counsel. Most services described here assume both partners are legal adults.
63) Can we get married if we don’t live together?+
Confidential marriage licenses in California typically involve an affirmation about living together. If you are unsure whether you qualify, review the confidential license eligibility details. If you do not qualify for confidential licensing, you may need a public license obtained through the county clerk. Choose the service that matches the license type you will be using.
64) Do you help with name change paperwork?+
Name change processes typically involve agencies like the Social Security Administration and DMV, and may also involve passport updates. The marriage certificate is commonly used as a supporting document. If you need a certified copy for name change, plan to order it after filing is processed. If you need notarization for related paperwork, a notary partner may assist.
65) What if we need our certificate apostilled for another country?+
An apostille is typically obtained after you have a certified copy of your marriage certificate. Different countries have different requirements about apostille vs. embassy legalization. Some also require translation by a certified translator. If you are unsure, identify the country and purpose (immigration, registration, etc.) so the correct workflow can be followed.
66) Can we do a ceremony without exchanging rings?+
Yes. Rings are optional and are not required for a legal marriage. Many couples keep the ceremony simple and focus on the legal consent and signing elements. You can still include personal words or a brief vow without rings. The ceremony can be tailored to your preferences while preserving legal validity.
67) Can we do a ceremony in a different language?+
Some ceremonies can be performed bilingually depending on officiant availability and comfort. The priority is that both parties understand and consent to the marriage. If language is a key concern, choose a service option that supports a bilingual officiant or keep the script simple. For complex multilingual ceremonies, allow extra time.
68) Is our marriage valid in other states?+
A legally performed California marriage is recognized across the United States. Your marriage certificate (certified copy) is the standard proof used for name changes, benefits, taxes, and other official uses. Keep your certified copies secure, and consider ordering multiple if you anticipate multiple uses. If an agency requests proof, a certified copy is often the best document to provide.
69) Can we get married if the courthouse is fully booked?+
Yes—this is one of the most common reasons couples use Get Married Today. Courtrooms and county clerk appointments can be limited, especially around holidays and year-end deadlines. Office and mobile options allow couples to complete the legal process without depending on courthouse calendars. As always, bring valid ID and ensure both partners can consent.
70) Can we get married if we missed our county clerk appointment?+
Many couples seek an alternative after missing an appointment or being turned away due to scheduling limits. If you still need a license, you may be able to complete the license through Get Married Today’s confidential workflow. If you already have a valid license, ceremony-only may be enough. The correct service depends on whether you already possess a valid license.
71) What if we want a “courthouse-style” ceremony but not at the courthouse?+
Many couples want a simple, official-feeling ceremony without the courthouse environment. Office ceremonies are designed to feel professional and legally clear, often with a short script and a structured signing process. This approach is ideal for privacy, speed, and clarity. You can still add a few personal touches like rings or brief vows.
72) Can we do an outdoor ceremony that’s still legally valid?+
Yes, a legal ceremony can be performed outdoors as long as the legal requirements are met and documents are completed correctly. Outdoor ceremonies are common for beaches, parks, or scenic locations, subject to local rules and logistics. Ensure there is a stable surface for paperwork and that conditions allow careful signing. Weather backups can prevent disruptions.
73) Can we get married if we have an officiant already?+
Yes. Couples with their own officiant often use license-only services to obtain a legally issued license. After issuance, your officiant will follow the requirements for solemnization and signing. Make sure your officiant understands how to complete the license correctly and within legal timelines. If your officiant cannot proceed, you can book ceremony-only services instead.
74) What if our officiant is out of state or not available?+
If your officiant is unavailable, you can book a ceremony-only or license + ceremony service with Get Married Today. This ensures the marriage is completed by an ordained minister who follows the correct legal steps. If you already have a license, you may only need the ceremony portion. If you still need a license, an all-in-one option may be best.
75) Can we get married if we need absolute discretion?+
Confidential marriage licenses are commonly chosen for discretion and privacy. Couple-only appointments reduce visibility and simplify logistics. Mobile service at a private location can be the most discreet option. Regardless of privacy level, the same legal standards apply for identification and consent.
76) What if we need a ceremony at night?+
Evening or nighttime options may be available depending on staffing and venue availability. Some couples choose evening settings for ambience or scheduling reasons. Night ceremonies are common for couples who work late or want an after-hours experience. Choose a package that explicitly supports evening timing when available.
77) What if we need help choosing the right package?+
Start by identifying what you already have: do you already have a marriage license, or do you need one? Next decide whether you want to marry in-office or at your location. Then consider guests and add-ons like photography. Use the “Book Your Marriage” and “Shop” pages to match your situation to the correct service type.
78) Do you handle both license and ceremony in one appointment?+
Yes, all-in-one options exist for couples who want the license and the ceremony completed together. This is one of the most popular choices for same-day convenience. It reduces scheduling complexity and keeps the process simple. Eligibility and ID requirements still apply, and accurate paperwork is essential.
79) Can we get married if we want to avoid a government setting?+
Yes—many couples choose Get Married Today specifically to avoid courthouse environments. Office services provide a professional alternative, and mobile services provide a private option at your chosen location. This is common for elopements, international couples, and people with tight deadlines. The key legal requirements remain: valid ID and clear consent.
80) What are the most important things to do before booking?+
First, confirm both partners have valid government-issued photo ID. Second, decide whether you need a license, a ceremony, or both. Third, pick office vs. mobile based on privacy and logistics. Finally, consider guests and add-ons like photography, and plan for certified copies if you’ll need proof for benefits, immigration, or international use.
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General Questions
How can I get married today?
With Get Married Today, you can get married today by booking an appointment. We provide both the marriage license and a legal wedding ceremony all on the same day — no courthouse visit required.
What are the first steps to getting married in one day?
First, schedule an appointment at one of our offices or at a location of your choice, and bring your ID. Next, complete and sign documents, including the marriage licenses. The Notary Public will then notarize the marriage licenses and Sworn Statement. After the process, you can customize the ceremony as much as you’d like before it commences. The Ordained Minister will sign the marriage licenses, and we will file all the documents and marriage licenses with the County. You will receive a Proof of Marriage, and we will order your official License and Certificate of Marriage, which will be mailed to your address from the County within 5-8 weeks.
Can you legally marry someone the same day you apply for a marriage license?
Yes, there is no waiting period in California, and Get Married Today is authorized to issue the license and perform the ceremony on the same day.
What is the fastest way to get legally married in the U.S.?
The fastest way is to use an authorized private service like Get Married Today. We streamline the entire process — license and ceremony in one sitting.
Where can I find a same-day wedding officiant?
Get Married Today provides licensed officiants and even a venue space for elopements and pop-up weddings.
Is it possible to skip the waiting period for a marriage license?
California doesn’t have a waiting period for a marriage license. Services like Get Married Today allow same-day weddings without delay.
How does a courthouse wedding work?
A courthouse wedding requires an appointment with the county clerk, a marriage license, and a civil ceremony with a government official. However, you can achieve the same legal outcome that is faster, easier, and more convenient with Get Married Today.
Can you get married instantly without a ceremony?
No. California law requires a ceremony, but it can be short and straightforward. Get Married Today can provide a quick legal ceremony that fulfills the requirement.
Are there online marriage services for same-day weddings?
Yes. Services like Get Married Today allow you to schedule online and then complete the marriage license and ceremony in person on the very same day.
How fast can you get a marriage license in California?
With Get Married Today, the license is issued on-site and during your appointment. There is no need for a separate visit to the county clerk.
Can I get married without a marriage license in California?
No, you are required to have a marriage license in California. However, with Get Married Today, the license is issued on the spot, so you don’t have to visit the county clerk separately.
What is a quickie wedding?
A quickie wedding is a fast and simple legal marriage. Get Married Today offers just that — a minimal ceremony without long planning and all the legal paperwork handled.
How much does it cost to get married instantly?
At Get Married Today, marriage license and ceremony packages start at as low as $350. Everything can be done at an affordable, bundled price.
What states allow instant marriages?
California allows same-day legal marriage with no waiting period. Other states with similar rules include Nevada, Alabama, Arkansas, Colorado, Connecticut, Florida, Hawaii, Idaho, Indiana, and more. Still, California has one of the most straightforward processes — especially with authorized services like Get Married Today.
Legal Requirements
What documents do I need to get married today?
You need a valid government-issued photo ID like a driver’s license, state ID, or passport.
Can I get married without my birth certificate?
Yes, birth certificates are not required to obtain a marriage license in California.
Do both partners need to be present to get a marriage license?
Yes, both partners must appear together in person to apply for the license.
Can you marry without an ID?
No. A valid, unexpired, government-issued photo ID is required for both parties.
What is the age requirement to get married?
You must be 18 years or older to marry without parental or court consent.
Can I get married with an expired passport?
No. You must have a valid and current photo ID. An expired passport will not be accepted.
What are the requirements for a courthouse wedding?
To have a courthouse wedding, you must have a marriage license, schedule a civil ceremony, appear with ID and a witness, and pay the ceremony fee. However, Get Married Today can handle everything without courthouse hassle.
Can I get married if I lose my ID?
No, you’ll need to replace your ID before getting married. California law requires valid identification at the time of marriage license issuance.
What's required for a proxy marriage?
California does not allow proxy marriages unless one person is actively serving in the U.S. military and can’t be present due to deployment. In that case, special procedures apply.
What is the difference between a marriage license and a marriage certificate?
A marriage license gives you legal permission to marry while a marriage certificate is the official record proving you are legally married. Get Married Today will help you get the license and file for your certificate.
Do I need a blood test to get married?
Blood tests are not required in California for marriage.
Waiting Periods
Why do you have to wait three days to get married?
You don’t have to in California. While some states require a waiting period, California doesn’t, and you can marry immediately after getting your license.
Can I waive the waiting period for a marriage license?
There’s no waiting period to waive. California lets you marry the same day you get your license.
Do I need to be a resident of a state to get married there?
No, you do not need to be a California resident to marry in the state. Anyone can get married in California as long as they meet the legal requirements.
Can I marry on the same day if I'm divorced?
Yes, as long as your divorce is finalized and you have legal documentation, you can remarry immediately in California.
Why do some states require a waiting period for marriage?
Some states implement waiting periods to discourage impulsive marriages and give couples time to reconsider. However, California does not require a waiting period.
Can I get married if my fiancé is overseas?
Not in person. Both parties must be physically present to get a marriage license and complete the ceremony in California. Remote or proxy marriage is prohibited unless one party is in the U.S. military under exceptional circumstances.
How can I legally marry someone who lives in another country?
You can have them travel to California and marry in person (services, like Get Married Today, can handle the process same-day), or consider applying for a fiance visa if you plan on bringing them to the U.S. to marry.
Elopement and Destination Weddings
What is an elopement wedding?
An elopement is a small, simple, and often spontaneous wedding. Elopements usually include just the couple, an officiant, and maybe a witness. With Get Married Today, you can elope legally and quickly in a private setting without the stress of planning a big event.
How does a pop-up wedding work?
A pop-up wedding is a styled mini-ceremony set up temporarily at a location such as a park, beach, or venue. Some elopement services in California offer pop-up elopements where everything is set up for you — just show up, get married, and go celebrate.
Can you elope without anyone knowing?
Yes. If you get a confidential marriage license in California, your marriage is not part of the public record, and no witness is required. It’s ideal for private elopements.
Can you get married while traveling?
Yes, you don’t need to be a California resident to marry here. Many couples from out of state or country travel to California to elope. Just bring a valid ID and book an appointment.
What is a micro wedding?
A micro wedding is a small-scale ceremony with a limited guest list. It’s more intimate than a traditional wedding while still including some planning and structure.
How does a Vegas wedding work?
In Las Vegas, you can walk into the Marriage License Bureau, get a license, and be married within minutes at one of many wedding chapels. California offers a similar experience through private services like Get Married Today.
What's the difference between eloping and a courthouse wedding?
Eloping is more private, flexible, and can be done anywhere, whereas a courthouse wedding happens at the government office and follows more formal procedures. Get Married Today offers the legal benefits of a courthouse wedding with the flexibility and privacy of an elopement.
Can I elope and have a wedding later?
Absolutely. Many couples elope first, then have a ceremony later with family and friends. Your elopement is legally binding, and you can celebrate again whenever you’re ready.
Marriage and Ceremonies
Can you get married without a wedding?
Yes. You can have a legal marriage without a traditional wedding. Get Married Today offers a simple ceremony with no required guests, planning, or reception — only the legal essentials.
Can you be legally married without a minister or officiant?
Not in most cases. California requires a licensed officiant to perform the ceremony. Get Married Today can provide one for you.
Can I get married by signing a paper?
Not in California. You must have a legal ceremony with an officiant and a signed marriage license. Signing the license without ceremony is not valid under California law.
What is a civil marriage?
A civil marriage is a non-religious, legal marriage performed by an authorized officiant. Get Married Today provides civil-style weddings that are quick, legal, and non-religious.
What happens if we just sign a marriage license?
In California, you must also have a ceremony where you declare your intent to marry before an officiant. Just signing the marriage license won’t make the marriage legal.
Do we have to exchange vows to be legally married?
Only a minimal declaration of intent is required, such as saying “I do.” Exchanging personal vows is not required, but you can if you want to.
Documentation and Proof
What is a proof of marriage letter?
A proof of marriage letter is a document confirming that you are legally married. The official proof in California is your certified marriage certificate issued by the country after your marriage license is filed.
How do I get an official marriage certificate?
Once you’re married, your officiant sends the signed license to the county. After it’s processed, you can request a certified copy of your marriage certificate from the County Clerk’s office. Get Married Today will handle filing for you and order your official License and Certificate of Marriage, which will be mailed to your address.
Do I need to change my last name after marriage?
No, it is not required to change your last name after marriage. However, if you want to take your spouse’s last name, you can write your new name on the marriage license. After marriage, you must update your ID, Social Security, etc.
How long does it take to receive a marriage certificate?
The County Clerk typically takes 1 to 3 weeks to process your license and make the marriage certificate available. You must request and pay for a certified copy — it’s not automatically mailed to you. For more information, check out this article.
Can I get a copy of my marriage certificate online?
You can submit a request online via your county’s website, but the actual certificate must be mailed or picked up in person.
How can I prove I'm married without a marriage certificate?
The certified marriage certificate is legal proof. Until then, you can use the filed license, but it is not official proof. Get Married Today will file your license immediately to get your certificate as soon as possible.
Do I need to register my marriage after the wedding?
You don’t personally need to register it. Your officiant (or Get Married Today) will return your signed license to the County Clerk. Once filed, your marriage becomes official and recorded.
How do I update my name after getting married?
Once you have your certified marriage certificate, you can update your name with the Social Security Administration, the DMV, the Passport agency, and any Banks, insurance, employer, etc.
What are common mistakes that can make a marriage invalid?
Common mistakes include not getting a valid marriage license, not having an authorized officiant, not completing the ceremony, and not filing the license to the county. Get Married Today will help prevent these errors from occurring.
What happens if you lose your marriage certificate?
You can order a certified copy from the County Clerk’s office where your license was filed. You’ll need to have proof of identity, complete a request form, and pay a fee.
